"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you decide LJBF..

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so i met this girl. only said a couple words to her, cause i wasnt too interested at the time.

saw her again, and hit it off amazingly! ended up hangin out with friends at a bar, didnt know she was showing up, hit off really well...

end of the night, i was somewhat awkward in getting the number but i did. said some pretty AFC shlt in the process.

but i message her the next day to go to a concert she was wanting to go to, talking about the previous night. she accepted.

good concert, kino, flirting, talking.

i ask to see her again sometime... maybe. (threw the maybe in as a joke)

i get... if its not too serious, on a friendly basis... sometime.

she had dropped the typical im a pahse for im not looking for anything serious in the car while chatting a hour or so before...

i was non chalant about it.

so...

i get three messages this morning on my phone. early. its past 5 now. i havent responded. i can always say i left my phone at home.

so...

what to do what to do?

im new to this practice. i tried to play cool about a year ago when i found this site with another girl, and i TOTALLY f-u-ed it up. haha.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok peeps. i didnt contact her yesterday although i felt like crap doing it.

thinking about responding today, unless one of you djs think its a bad idea.
 

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When You Call her Back:

"Tommorow" Explain to her that you were very busy and tied up, but that you should have some free time this friday.

Don't take her to anywhere real fancy (don't spend alot of money). Pratice some kino, kiss close, and try to fvck as soon as possible.

If she says that she busy friday, tell her that thats the only day open in your "busy" schedule.

You do have backup b*tches right? :woo:




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