"You Chose Me"

[bigneil]

Whenever you seduce a woman and you reach that rare state of her peak interest (subject to change overnight), you should always study them.

Be sure to ask them:

1) When did you realize you first liked me?
2) When did you realize that your having sex with me was imminent?
3) When was the first time you had an orgasm with me? (she often kept it secret)
4) When did you first fall in love with me? (when applicable)

Note that it goes in that order.

The keys to seducing other women in the future are there in her answers - answers which she will only divulge during certain post orgasmic moments. When her interest fades these answers will be lost forever.

I recently asked a girl why she fell in love and she answered "Because you chose me". That was the key. A woman wants a man who has options who chooses her. Nothing makes them feel more special. If you have no options it's not the same experience for her.

So, to get your dream girl, get 2 or 3 girls she knows to love you and choose her instead.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

my favorite is when they say they wanted to fck when they first saw you hehehe

 

[Desdinova]

1) When did you realize you first liked me?
2) When did you realize that your having sex with me was imminent?
3) When was the first time you had an orgasm with me? (she often kept it secret)
4) When did you first fall in love with me? (when applicable)

Why in hell would I ask her any of this? Why would I need this kind of validation?

The only thing I asked that was remotely close to this was when I found her dildo and asked "how many times did you think of me while you were using this?" She couldn't stop laughing for five minutes.

Besides, women will generally volunteer this information over time.

 

[backseatjuan]

I will tattoo your post on my forearm!

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Gotta agree with Desdinova. The potential benefit of knowing the answer to these questions is vastly outweighed by the dis-benefit of looking like a validation-seeking wet-wipe. Especially when.....

A woman wants a man who has options who chooses her.

......you already knew the answer anyway.

I think to paraphrase Rollo, women want a man who just gets it.....

"I’ve counseled more men than I care to recount who’ve sobbed from the depths of their souls, “IF SHE’D JUST TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO MAKE HER LOVE ME I’D DO IT!” not realizing that their very verbalization of that and a belief in open, rational communication is the very thing that’s killing (or killed) their woman’s desire for him."

".....genuine desire cannot be negotiated."

Feedback once the relationship has ended might be fine, but cutting someone off mid-sentence is just rude.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Gotta agree with Desdinova. The potential benefit of knowing the answer to these questions is vastly outweighed by the dis-benefit of looking like a validation-seeking wet-wipe. Especially when.....



......you already knew the answer anyway.

I think to paraphrase Rollo, women want a man who just gets it.....

"I’ve counseled more men than I care to recount who’ve sobbed from the depths of their souls, “IF SHE’D JUST TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO MAKE HER LOVE ME I’D DO IT!” not realizing that their very verbalization of that and a belief in open, rational communication is the very thing that’s killing (or killed) their woman’s desire for him."

".....genuine desire cannot be negotiated."

Feedback once the relationship has ended might be fine, but cutting someone off mid-sentence is just rude.

It cannot be negotiated, but it can be generated. Some of those sobbing guys need to pull time from the lady they are chasing and add options and spend time with them instead.

 

[backseatjuan]

Ok, no tattoo on forearm, it would be stupid just like tattooing woman's name! I would say your questions make sense but have a flaw, because people are dishonest. I suggest wiretapping the b1tches, I think I even had a post about wiretapping b1tches! You use an app like reptilicus for android and others for ios and windows phone, and these women will tell you honestly everything they think of you. Last time I used this I ended up kicking two girls out of my house in the middle of the night, because there was too much negative information.

 

[Roober]

I have heard that from one other person, my ex wife.... that she was happy that I chose her. Women who realize a man of value are definitely far more valuable than the ones who think they are the prize. Unfortunately, this is a very small percentage of women. Most seem to think men should bow at their feet, and unfortunately most men do and further their ego even more

 

[backseatjuan]

I believe I have proper answer to all of this in my post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/film-2-help-you-the-last-time.239446/

 

[Glassguy]

Whenever you seduce a woman and you reach that rare state of her peak interest (subject to change overnight), you should always study them.

Be sure to ask them:

1) When did you realize you first liked me?
2) When did you realize that your having sex with me was imminent?
3) When was the first time you had an orgasm with me? (she often kept it secret)
4) When did you first fall in love with me? (when applicable)

Note that it goes in that order.

The keys to seducing other women in the future are there in her answers - answers which she will only divulge during certain post orgasmic moments. When her interest fades these answers will be lost forever.

I recently asked a girl why she fell in love and she answered "Because you chose me". That was the key. A woman wants a man who has options who chooses her. Nothing makes them feel more special. If you have no options it's not the same experience for her.

So, to get your dream girl, get 2 or 3 girls she knows to love you and choose her instead.

This is terrible advice. Why would you even start asking these questions to allow yourself to get into HER FRAME?

If things go from smash and dash to a relationship, she will tell you when she first liked you if not sooner.

She will tell you when she wanted to fvck you and you'll know if she is cvmming if you are fvcking her right. Trust me, there is no "need" to ask.

You might as well be asking for an exclusive relationship with a woman so you can watch her run away from you.

These questions are 150% beta IMO.

If you are getting what YOU want out of it, who cares about the rest?

 

[devilkingx2]

Why in hell would I ask her any of this?

case study for improving your game in the future maybe?

I can definitely see why you'd want to ask girls who like you when they started liking you

 

[Trump]

Whenever you seduce a woman and you reach that rare state of her peak interest (subject to change overnight), you should always study them.

Be sure to ask them:

1) When did you realize you first liked me?
2) When did you realize that your having sex with me was imminent?
3) When was the first time you had an orgasm with me? (she often kept it secret)
4) When did you first fall in love with me? (when applicable)

Note that it goes in that order.

What? Come on bro, why would ever ask a girl these questions? If she's at the peak of her interest, why would you CHANGE anything to jeopardize it?

Better questions would be;

1) I am going to Vegas for a business meeting, care to join me 1st class, penthouse hotel?
2) I am going to a business fuction, dress up only, care to join me?
3) I am going for a drive in my new car, care to join me?

The keys to seducing other women in the future are there in her answers - answers which she will only divulge during certain post orgasmic moments. When her interest fades these answers will be lost forever.

I recently asked a girl why she fell in love and she answered "Because you chose me". That was the key. A woman wants a man who has options who chooses her. Nothing makes them feel more special. If you have no options it's not the same experience for her.

So, to get your dream girl, get 2 or 3 girls she knows to love you and choose her instead.

Agree with the last sentence but the questions kind of scream insecurity and express feelings. If it works for you bro go for it but I would do it.

 

[JohnChops]

It's the women's job to care about the status of the relationship, it's the guys job to keep her wondering.

Agree with desd, no need to seek validation, you already know she is into you.

 

[zekko]

Agree with desd, no need to seek validation, you already know she is into you.

I don't think it's about seeking validation, I think the idea is that if you can figure out how it was done, then theoretically at least you can reproduce it. There's something about men, we like to reduce everything down to an understandable formula, to make it a technical process that we can put into play.

Of course the female individual will always be the wild card in the situation, even if you do get it figured out.

 

[JohnChops]

I don't think it's about seeking validation, I think the idea is that if you can figure out how it was done, then theoretically at least you can reproduce it. There's something about men, we like to reduce everything down to an understandable formula, to make it a technical process that we can put into play.

Of course the female individual will always be the wild card in the situation, even if you do get it figured out.

it sounds like the male logical mind at work zek. I see what you're saying, you're saying that neil is asking her these probing questions in an attempt to make a universal formula to apply to other women. However, women aren't universal, so why bother with a "one sized fits all" formula. Which I think is what you're getting at, calling the female a "wild card." So ultimately, what do YOU think us men could benefit from forming this type of formula? @zekko

just an after thought, you said it is not about validation, however, isn't asking her these questions making it seem like you are looking for her validation on where you stand in the relationship?

 

[zekko]

So ultimately, what do YOU think us men could benefit from forming this type of formula?

I think it's just part of the process of attaining social calibration. A guy learns to take a certain approach with women, then he has to learn to apply a certain flexibilty to adapt to the situation and the target (the wild card). And the wisdom to know when it's all a waste of time.

When I was a young man, we didn't have the internet, so I would analyze my failures. I would think "Okay, I was a little too needy with that girl and it cost me". Then, maybe the next time out I would be a little too cold. You have to find your balance.

Neil here is trying to analyze his success. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to ask those questions, but I'm not sure it sounds like validation seeking, exactly.