"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can't lose interest if you don't see someone, right?

ASUknowit18

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I'm trying to figure this out - And I know you guys can help.

Met a girl on a group trolley ride. She came back with me home, but just made out - Which was nice b/c she seemed fun/cool and worth pursuing, which Im not doing with a one night stand.

Asked her out (via text, I like the text game) and we went out for drinks. This was a Thursday. Just made out a little on the cab back to her place. Nice.

Asked for a second date. Went out for dinner. Came back to my place and hooked up (bj)...all good. That was the FOLLOWING Friday night.

The next Wednesday night, a mutual friend asks me and my roommate to go to a baseball game with her and the girl ive been dating - We go to the game, so 4 of us. We go out to the bars after and then she comes over and we have sex. All is well.

She was going out of town on that saturday and Sunday, I had a dinner planned for Thursday, so SHE asked if I could hang out friday before she left. She came over, watched a movie and we both passed out. No hook up. I took her to her house at 5 am so she can catch her flight. THAT WAS THE LAST TIME I SAW HER.

I texted her last Monday if she wanted to grab a ****tail that night, as I was going out of town from Thurs - Sun. She said her mom was in town all week with this face :( and asked when Im leaving for vacation - I told her Thurs - Sunday AND THAT WAS IT.

Waited 5 days, until Saturday when I was out of town asking her how the football game was she was supposed to go to, and she texted back she didnt go. She asked how my vacation was, I said it was great.

So Sunday comes and I ask her what she is doing Tuesday. She said she had volleyball. DIDNT COUNTEROFFER, which she did for our 2nd date.

A work dinner I had planned for today canceled so I asked if she wanted to grab a ****tail (Im busy Wednesday) - She said she had volleyball today, too many intramurals :(

So I just deleted her number..Im just trying to figure out what happened. As Doc Love says, a girl can't lose interest level when you aren't with her. The only thing I can think of is that I should of started calling rather than texting. But if a girl has high interest she will date you. Any thoughts, Im befuddled.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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