You can't be a bad boy unless you're hot?

[skinnyguy]

I read a lot every day. I read blog by "relationship gurus" trying to give guys advice on how to get women.

Here is one of them:

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lucia/12-reasons-women-can-t-stand-nice-guys

However, this writer, along with most other writers, fail to understand that bad boys are that way because they can be. Nice guys will always be nice, whether they like it or not, because if they try to act like a bad boy, they will be labeled a "douchebag" by women and will not get laid. On the other hand, the guy with muscles and tattoos will act the exact same way and clean up with those same women.

 

[Zarky]

Sounds like a lot of speculation on your part, friend. How about trying to be more of a "bad boy," no matter what you look like, and let us know how it goes?

 

[Betterz]

A bad boy isn't a look. It's how you carry yourself. I think you should be seeking out an alpha mindset rather than a badboy one as you could easily be labelled a try hard and douchebag. The badboy attitude comes naturally when your alpha, not necessarily being bad boy but the confidence you exude when getting your mind into alpha mode comes across as natural badass.

Do some NLP, hit the gym and let confidence be your first weapon in your armoury

 

[Uncharted]

This is dumb. I'm 5'10 175, no tattoos and not a gym rat and I've been labeled a "troublemaker" by girls because of my confidence and crazy (true) stories of my past that either I tell or they hear from others.

Women love excitement and emotional rollercoasters. Don't be boring and you'll be fine.