"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You cannot fully know the principles of this website until you leave it.

Warrior74

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Those are the words of Pook.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150

I've been in a limbo for a while with work and and health issues and my business. Now it's all starting to come together, so I should start focusing on that. I've been spending a ton of time on this forum and zenmack and other sites when I could have been spending that time on forums for small businesses, working on my marketing plan and drumming up new clients, or polishing my skillsets.

I finally have internet at home and in our office and I don't plan on spending all of my time on these boards, I have a ton of work to do to get my sites up and getting clients and dealing with employees.

What about women? Well to be honest, I got 99 problems but a biitch ain't one. I still have two girls on my team, looking to add a new one and drop one. Gotta upgrade one of them, she was my starter girl...not the best looking, but she helped me get back in the game. Time to go after someone better suited to the life I'm trying to lead, instead of the life I used to lead. It's time to get out there in the game and play it for real.

Time to get my ducks in a row guys. It's been good being here. I'm sure I'll be back around. To anyone still sitting on the sidelines, read the dj bible, the book of pook and check out some of the zenmack podcasts for a different view. Then get out there and do it. But don't linger to long on these forums. Thanks guys. Good luck! :wave:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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women haze

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Sad to see you go man. Your advice here has been golden, but in your leaving you are giving us a final lesson. This forum is a source of entertainment to me. When games are ready to be put away, they need to be put away. Take care Don Juan
 

Violent V

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You came, you learnt and applied, and now you move on. Top man!

But make sure you come back to help others who are at the bottom of the ladder now and then. Especially those who personally message you. You have a lot of experience, and it would be a shame not to share it with others!

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