"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You Can Run, But You Can't Hide

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Owe money to the gov? They'll get it one way or another....

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According to a new report from the Government Accountability Office, the federal government is increasingly garnishing Social Security benefits to help cover student loans payments owed by baby boomers. According the Wall Street Journal, a total of $1.1 billion has been garnished since 2001 with $171 million being collected in 2015 alone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No one can fvck with your pension or benefits over here. If you take a loan, bank better not sue you, because if they do, judge will order you to pay only the amount you took, without interest. Presently, there are a number of programs, anything from starting a farm, to building a house, you get free land, and interest free loan. So if this is your thing, get married, make her take a loan, do your thing while you become citizen. Ever wondered why Steven Seagal got his citizenship? Hill start a farm or two, build a mansion or two, people need free income.
 

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If you took a loan, you should expect to pay it back.

If you don't expect to, don't take the loan.
Exactly. Why again is this a bad thing???

Baby boomers are the true spoiled pricks. They got to enjoy the best of everything. Why again should I feel sorry for them?
 

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The dudes who invented the student loan program were super-genius villains.

They convinced congress it was a good idea to loan kids a ton of money so they could get a degree in French Literature. AND they convinced congress that if the kids defaulted on the loans, CONGRESS would pay the loan company (like sixty cents on the dollar or something) and then have the burden of collecting.

While I agree with @speed dawg , it's not like kids were walking into a bank and demanding loan. They were heavily marketed to.

http://www.unz.com/mhudson/banking-on-student-debt/
 

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I have student loans that have been in default for twenty years. About eight years ago, I thought about getting them up to date, and paid a little on them, but I had to deal with the sleaziest fvcking dirt bag collection agency out of Chicago. Everybody had an Italian first name and a last initial, no full names. These were bigger dirt bags than the people I used to know as a stockbroker. They had bought my debt, for probably for about 5 cents on the dollar because it was so old. Now, to repay my debt to the taxpayers, I am supposed to give money to these scum bags. It's a joke. I'm not worried about them geting my social security check, because I doubt I'll ever see one of those, anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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While I agree with @speed dawg , it's not like kids were walking into a bank and demanding loan. They were heavily marketed to.
This is fair. I've been on the bad end of this with 0% down loans and such, and gotten plenty of bad advice.

Millenials really have gotten a raw deal on some things. The baby boomers really have saddled us with some bad sh*t, and I just do not feel sorry for them. I have respect for one segment of the boomers in general - Vietnam Vets - but the rest of the boomers hated them too. They've told us all this time we should get a college degree no matter what. Then, as they've matured, they've overseen the advertising process you speak of. Not to mention they are just plain selfish in general.
 

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What happens if you get a degree in the states then move abroad? are they gonna chase you even if you have no property in the contry?
 

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When you took the loan, did you intend to pay it back?

What happened that prevented you from doing so?
I signed an 11-year contract at age 18 with the Army. They offered me a full ride scholarship in Florida. I went through a few years of the officer training, but I never could get along with military officers. I just wasn't born with enough ass-kissing skills. My colonel threw me against a wall one day and screamed at me to quit, threatening to make the rest of my career a living hell if I did not. It was a persuasive argument. That was 1997. I filed bankruptcy in 99, but gov't debt doesn't go away. I owe about $50k, half to the DOD and half to the student loan people, at least originally. The student loan debt has now gone to dirt bag collection people.
 

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What happens if you get a degree in the states then move abroad?
I don't know all the specifics but unless you renounce your citizenship, you HAVE TO file taxes with the IRS even if you make squat. If you make MORE than a certain amount, you have to pay taxes to the U.S. as well as to whatever country you're working in.

So technically, if you owe fed.gov, (or any of their collectors) every penny you make will be have a chunk taken out before you get it.

The U.S. has passed some pretty draconian laws regarding international banking.

They've also passed laws that if you owe more than a certain amount on taxes, they can revoke your passport.

I don't know that borrowing a bunch of money to get a degree then flee to another country is particularly good strategy, ESPECIALLY if you hope to ever return to the U.S.
 

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I don't know all the specifics but unless you renounce your citizenship, you HAVE TO file taxes with the IRS even if you make squat. If you make MORE than a certain amount, you have to pay taxes to the U.S. as well as to whatever country you're working in.

So technically, if you owe fed.gov, (or any of their collectors) every penny you make will be have a chunk taken out before you get it.

The U.S. has passed some pretty draconian laws regarding international banking.

They've also passed laws that if you owe more than a certain amount on taxes, they can revoke your passport.

I don't know that borrowing a bunch of money to get a degree then flee to another country is particularly good strategy, ESPECIALLY if you hope to ever return to the U.S.
I understood what you mean but guess a guy fleeing to russia with no intention to come back hardly is gonna have any problem.

For what I recall the banking agreement you talk about works in Europe, I recall when I opened a bank account that I had to sign a subform about me not being an american citizen nor had anything do with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The current generation is the one that let itself get talked into shiny private college degrees in basket weaving.
Think about what an easy sell this is, if you are a college loan agent. You talk to some college kids about going to school. You show them stats that "prove" college education means more money. The kid is unsure who does he or she ask?

Parents

Parents will more likely tell their kid to go to school. Nobody wants to be the parent of a blue collar workers. Especially BOOMER parents, to whom status is everything. Parents also don't want to pay, so they are grateful for the loan. Parents say, "take the loan.

Teachers

A teacher who has none of their students go to college looks like an idiot. So of course the teacher will recommend the student take the loan.

Friends

since only "loser" kids don't go to college, of course all the other kids say they're going to school

Conclusion:

Selling loans to high school kids of boomers is like selling bottles of whiskey to alcoholics for a dollar.
 
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