you can reduce your stress a lot by realizing

[yuppee]

that men, especially young men, want sex 10x as badly and 10x as often as women do. Women (the kind worth having) realize the risks they run with sex, so they want commitment, preferably marriage before giving it up.

So it's best to either go overseas for a good woman, (which can be dangerous as hell, too) or forget about having anything decent/steady until you're 40 or so. In the interim, what you'll be stuck with is short flings with the party girls and the single moms, with the latter being quite dangerous, indeed. Get a vasectomy, so no woman can trap you with a paternity suit. If you can't get past the "lizard brain" thing and adopt, later, then have some of your sperm frozen before the vasectomy.

work on yourself, make several million $, and you'll be able to take your pick of women, even much younger women, when you're 40-50 and you really ARE "ready to settle down". Stop letting your hormones get you into trouble, stress you to the point of illness, and similar bs.

 

[Serenity]

What the fvck? Where do you get that young men want sex 10 times more intensely and often than women? I'm extremely skeptical to that statement. I know women who would almost fvcking die for some d!ck, your statement just doesn't add up.

 

[Asmodeus]

"We've lost sight of what's truly important."
^
Ourselves... We are what is truly important.. Never let a woman be a priority over yourself. Women come and go, you will always remain.

 

[logicallefty]

Men don't necessarily want sex more than women. they just act more desperate for it. And women use this to their advantage.

 

[Robert_F]

I agree with Logicallefty's statement. The problem is that a guy's preoccupation with sex is only due to his lack of occupation with sex.

 

[yuppee]

women find it much easier to do without. they dont think about it 50x per day. in fact, most women, if they don't have a man around, rarely think about it at ALL.

 

[Reykhel]

women find it much easier to do without. they dont think about it 50x per day. in fact, most women, if they don't have a man around, rarely think about it at ALL.

I must have had the good luck to only come across nymphomaniacs in my lifetime.....

It's a lot easier for women to get sex than it is for a man to get sex......

If I went out with a girl right now and said to her "let's have a challenge. Let's see who can get laid
the most tonight from 6pm until 6am"

who do you think would win? I don't think looks, status, money or power would come into it...

I think she would find it easier to find random guys to fvck her than I would find random girls that I would probably have to game.....before they would fvck...

This is why you have the so called double standard of men getting called studs or whatever if they bang a lot of women and women been called sluts if they bang a lot of c0ck. Because it takes effort and game (etc etc etc )for a man to be able to bang a lot of honnies but any woman could walk out into the street and would find a willing participant in minutes to let her suck their c0ck....

Women live with this knowledge. That's why you have the impression that they can do without. They know they have sex on tap should they choose to go pour a glass. They know they have a bull pen of about twenty willing orbitors waiting in the wings to pounce should her highness throw a scrap of meet under the table. Not all men have that knowledge that it's on tap unless their spinning plates or are very confident in their ability to pull.

 

[dutchmaster]

so jaded and negative, jeez. were the women mean to you?

 

[zinc4]

It's simple....a woman can get onine or heck go to the grocery store have a guy in bed in mins if she wants. Or she can call anyone among her guy friend network. And no amount of bs smooth talking or game is required. It's like ordering pizza for them....plus they can have a list of guys buy them anything.

If you had that amount of not only options but ease of gaining new options you would be the same way too. Don't kid yourself, though, they love sex.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's simple....a woman can get onine or heck go to the grocery store have a guy in bed in mins if she wants. Or she can call anyone among her guy friend network. And no amount of bs smooth talking or game is required. It's like ordering pizza for them....plus they can have a list of guys buy them anything.

If you had that amount of not only options but ease of gaining new options you would be the same way too. Don't kid yourself, though, they love sex.

It's more like ordering pizza, but the delivery guy pays for it. And he competes to do so.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That b1tches ain't $hit?

 

[El Payaso]

I must have had the good luck to only come across nymphomaniacs in my lifetime.....

It's a lot easier for women to get sex than it is for a man to get sex......

If I went out with a girl right now and said to her "let's have a challenge. Let's see who can get laid
the most tonight from 6pm until 6am"

who do you think would win? I don't think looks, status, money or power would come into it...

I think she would find it easier to find random guys to fvck her than I would find random girls that I would probably have to game.....before they would fvck...

This is why you have the so called double standard of men getting called studs or whatever if they bang a lot of women and women been called sluts if they bang a lot of c0ck. Because it takes effort and game (etc etc etc )for a man to be able to bang a lot of honnies but any woman could walk out into the street and would find a willing participant in minutes to let her suck their c0ck....

Women live with this knowledge. That's why you have the impression that they can do without. They know they have sex on tap should they choose to go pour a glass. They know they have a bull pen of about twenty willing orbitors waiting in the wings to pounce should her highness throw a scrap of meet under the table. Not all men have that knowledge that it's on tap unless their spinning plates or are very confident in their ability to pull.

There's also the basic biological aspect that a woman has longer sexual stamina than a man. A man can only have sex for so long getting worn out.

 

[yuppee]

the facts are that women aint as interested. Not even close. you can maybe GET her interested, if you offer the right incentives, but just a baseline level of interest, not. If they were, they'd be paying, half of the time and half of the full bill. but they aint and we all know it.

 

[Tamura]

that men, especially young men, want sex 10x as badly and 10x as often as women do. Women (the kind worth having) realize the risks they run with sex, so they want commitment, preferably marriage before giving it up.

Gather 100 men and you will have 50 different shades of sex drive, if you put the usual bragging aside. Same with women. From my personal experience my girls always wanted sex as bad and sometimes even more often than I did. Also in the beginning you can't get enough of her.

So it's best to either go overseas for a good woman, (which can be dangerous as hell, too) or forget about having anything decent/steady until you're 40 or so. In the interim, what you'll be stuck with is short flings with the party girls and the single moms, with the latter being quite dangerous, indeed. Get a vasectomy, so no woman can trap you with a paternity suit. If you can't get past the "lizard brain" thing and adopt, later, then have some of your sperm frozen before the vasectomy.

I would not advise for becoming father beyond 40, you're loosing touch with the young generation plus you tend to become more vulnerable to stress with age (and kids are stress if you care). I read that overseas-stuff so often and think that the U.S. must be in really bad shape, but who am I to judge? I prefer women speaking my language, sharing my cultural values, being independent and owning their own money. But to each his own.

work on yourself, make several million $, and you'll be able to take your pick of women, even much younger women, when you're 40-50 and you really ARE "ready to settle down". Stop letting your hormones get you into trouble, stress you to the point of illness, and similar bs.

Sure, you will be able to pick any woman. She will gladly take your money and f**k the gardener. You will never have 100% safety. Great job!

@yuppee
your profile says you're 55, so I guess you have your millions together and have settled down successfully nearly 10 years ago with a younger chick from overseas? congratulations! how are your kids doing?