"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can quit porn and jerking off
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
nismo-4
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Yes, you can...but it's not gonna suddenly make you more attractive to women. I hardly ever watched porn in my life and I have yet to meet and bang my dream girl.
CarlitosWay
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http://www.lifeissues.net/writers/hil/hil_01brain.html
After reading this it'll definitely make you rethink porn and how harmful it can be to some people who might have no idea they have an addiction.
After reading this it'll definitely make you rethink porn and how harmful it can be to some people who might have no idea they have an addiction.
logicallefty
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I like a little porn sometimes but I have never paid for it and never will. Just imagine if porn got so advanced that every man could own a holographic woman that looked and felt and fvcked like a real woman? Where would that put women in society? The golden \|/ would become a copper \|/ and oh how things would change..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
GS750
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In August 2013 I quit watching porn altogether, so it's been just over a year. I don't think it has transformed my life but I do feel better about myself and I do feel more confident especially around women. Some may say it's not harmful but I decided it wasn't doing me any good.
This should help you depedestalize women - - > www.nairaland.com/2136733/10-strange-things-all-women
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I watch porn all the time because im a horn dog and I have a hot gf
JohnChops
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Lol this again? People are always looking for that magic fix that will make them obtain women.
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***** please I watch it for the plot
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There's nothing wrong with porn 1-3 times a week, just don't overdo it.
It is only a matter of time until virtual holographic porn takes over and the value of vagina will go down no end. Ironically the more women up their game and frustrate guys the worse they will have it in the longer term. As technology takes over they will have to find new ways to get male attention and that is going to be tough.
It is only a matter of time until virtual holographic porn takes over and the value of vagina will go down no end. Ironically the more women up their game and frustrate guys the worse they will have it in the longer term. As technology takes over they will have to find new ways to get male attention and that is going to be tough.