"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you brush her tits

sharkbeat

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So, I was reminiscing my AFC moments and thought about what I could've done differently, and one came to my mind.

I was at a concert with a bunch of friends. There was A LOT OF PEOPLE. On our way back, talking and stuff, I accidentally brushed a chick's tits who was walking behind me with my elbow. I looked back, and I remembered she had this omg-I-cant-believe-my-tits-are-rubbed-I-am-horny-now look on her face. While not looking at me directly in the eyes, she was looking down, and it was an obvious one. I didn't say anything because she was with her friends who were blabbing about something, and my friend was also blabbing about something, and I couldn't come up with something clever to take over the situation.

I did that too to one of my exes, but we were already together, so it was no problem. Obviously, she got horny immediately, but we were in a public place, so she was sexually frustrated, and I enjoyed her frustration.

This too had happened to an old friend of mine back in high school at a bus, and the chick, he described, smiled shyly to him.

So, this accidental tit-brushing seems to be more common than we think, and chicks seem to love it and got instantly horny, but I still can't think of something clever to say/do when that happens, because that always happens in public with lots of people around you.

My gut is telling me to escalate this to kissing immediately. If this happens in a club, immediately drag her to the dance floor or start making out. No need for names and number. That's after the making out.

If this happens in public, during the day, I am speechless. What would/did you guys do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In2theGame

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Ive accidentally brushed my arm on girls tits before, More to girls i knew than a random girl i didnt know. Everytime this has happened, ive looked at them and said "oh sorry" and i would watch their reaction, on 2 occasions ive been a smart ass and when i said "oh sorry" and if the girl said "oh its ok" i would say "can i do it again?" lol if they laughed then i knew i had to escalate kino. all depends on the situation, what kind of girl, or whatever, for the most part if u brush against a girls tits, just look at her and say sorry, if she kinda has a smile or slight smirk on her face, escalate. In a lounge/bar, girls had accidentally brushed against my c*ck, and apologized with a smile :)
 

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In2theGame said:
Ive accidentally brushed my arm on girls tits before
I've accidentially brushed my arm on man tits before :(
 

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Oh middle school, high school where are You. I remember how they were playing tity twister in spanish class... :whistle:
 

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Check this out, guys...

About 10 years ago when I was trying to get over my bias against "fatties", I met up with this overweight but attractive girl. I figured I'd give it a go even though I really dislike fat. I was helping her into my boat when she stumbled, and I caught her by directly grabbing her tit. That was simply by chance, and I only acknowledged and teased her about it a week later.

But the funny thing is that as we went underway, the seas were a little rough, and the entire seat that she was sitting in collapsed! She hit the deck, and the aluminum poles that held up the seat were split down the middle and embedded into each other. So ended my attempt to overcome my fat bias. I used to think there was something wrong with me for not being attracted to fat girls. How's that for AFC?

Another time I was with a female customer, an older woman. She was about to show me something across the room, and as she started walking and swinging her arms, her hand completely cupped my "junk". It was funny because it wasn't just a hit, it was a complete all-encompassing "cupping". She just said, "oh, excuse me" and it was business as usual.

I suppose it's one of those "you had to be there" things, but it's funny how those chance occurances happen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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