"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My first post on outer-game for ages.

Simply steer the conversation to kissing.
I normally just talk about some of the best and worst kisses I have had.

Then talk about the different types of kisses.
Like there is fish lips, where they pout their lips (make this up, does not matter) and do it with your lips (exagerate).
Then accuse her of being a certain type and a terrible kisser.

She will then try convince you she is not and you play that angle for a while until you get her to kiss your hand.

Then just say you are not convinced and kiss her.
Done this like 5 times out of 5 and it works awesome.
Just get her to try convince you she does not suck and this will work, everytime.

This 'trick' is probably out there but this. I came up with on my own.
Even if lots of others have too :).

Also my apostrophe button is broken, makes you appreciate contractions huh.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm surprised no one's responded. This is actually a pretty good tip.
 
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I came up with this on my own too, I guess it's one of those things that comes to you naturally once you reach a certain level of "awesomeness".
 
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I feel simply just going for it works best for me... but I could see how this could make a good transition. Nice work
 
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If you need to read this tip to be able to kiss a girl, chances are you are doing something very, very wrong.

Always focus on inner game. Outer game is different for everyone. Its based on your appearance, your personality, who you're talking to, the situation, the region.... etc. Too many variables. Outer game is how you present yourself to people.

Outer game can't be taught, it can only be learned.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A woman will know what you're doing when you're steering conversation into 'kissing'.

You wanna man up and just kiss her or use tips like this to create a conversational context to give you permission?

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Great tip bro -- this method itches a woman to prove what she's really got.

Women hate to disappoint.

Just to throw in an extra move, I usually like to ask the girl...

"So, what does it feel like to kiss (her name)"

After she describes, KISS her...

THEN, you tell her whether she was right or wrong :)
 
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what a frickin coincidence. read this post yesterday before i went to this costume party. i was gonna use this but this chick beat me to it. 20 mins after i arrived, out of nowhere she says "ive always wondered what it would be like to make out with you". i reply "theres only one way to find out". we have a short make out session, then i whisper to her "i was wondering the same thing". she responds "really?" me: "no but i was wondering what it would be like to f*ck you". her: "so when are we going to your place?"

long story short her best friend c*ckblocked hours later, but it was still pretty cool. i was really having second thoughts about going to the party, making excuses like "its so far away, i gotta wake up early tomorrow, whos gonna be there, what if i do something stupid". just makes me realize even more that this sort of sh*t doesnt just show up to your door, you have to man up and get yourself out there
 
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wow i went to some halloween party, remembered this tip. took 2 girls, the first one i tried to be bold but kinda let it slide, met this wonderful blonde cutie outside, started talking about kissing i remember just saying "then you gotta prove it to me then".... got a passionate kiss and then tried to keep up the kissing and she was totally down! i told her to call me tomorrow as she offered it cuz i did try to get her in my room after that! thanks...i will use it on the 9.5's and 10's i'm currently talking to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xdreamz said:
wow i went to some halloween party, remembered this tip. took 2 girls, the first one i tried to be bold but kinda let it slide, met this wonderful blonde cutie outside, started talking about kissing i remember just saying "then you gotta prove it to me then".... got a passionate kiss and then tried to keep up the kissing and she was totally down! i told her to call me tomorrow as she offered it cuz i did try to get her in my room after that! thanks...i will use it on the 9.5's and 10's i'm currently talking to.
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When I read stuff like this, it reminds me why I try give quality advice here in the first place. :cheer:
 
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