"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You better not be a loafer."

Julius_Seizeher

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I'm posting this in MM as I doubt this kind of game would have the same effect if it were coming from a kid.

Lately I've been having fun implicitly accusing women of being lazy. In situations both public and more expressly personal, I capitalize on opportunities that present themselves. I'll say things like "You got work to do" or "You better not be a loafer" or "No girl of mine is going to be a gd freeloader!", etc.

In proper terminology it would be considered a style of qualification; you both disqualify her notion that you are going to kiss her ass and you prompt her to qualify herself to you.

Plus it's just fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It'll work well as long as she doesn't have significantly better looking AFC men chasing her.

We should all qualify our biatches

but the sad reality is that there are a ton of hb 10 afc dudes begging chicks for some sour tang.
 

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its a good way verbalize that you will keep them on their toes.
 

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Burroughs said:
It'll work well as long as she doesn't have significantly better looking AFC men chasing her.

We should all qualify our biatches

but the sad reality is that there are a ton of hb 10 afc dudes begging chicks for some sour tang.
You miss the point, grasshopper. Check your premises. It is not designed to "work", it is not "designed" with a specific end purpose in mind, save for that of my own entertainment.

Men don't get much better looking than me. But that is not the point, and I know from past experience that good looks do not trump knowing what you are doing (ie: not being an afc).

Don't worry about afcs who are better looking than you, they do don't any better. They still suffer, because they are afcs.
 

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grasshopper? Who the fvck are you david carradine :):)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dear Burroughs,
Oh don't take on so.....The Grasshopper properly presented,has seen many a fat Trout tummy down, on the bank...Jules Baby has a point,"Flirting is folly but fun".
 

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to me,.......

to me, the right method to enjoy women and not get burned, is like fishermen. "Catch and Release". I used to hear guys say this when I was young, but I was blinded by the thought of having one good wife, all my life. After all this time and experience, I truly believe the best life one can hope to live and still enjoy women is to fool the he!! out of them. Entrap them like you`re the she-male that they love to burn, then go alpha on them. When they get enough, they will leave. Then find another "sucker". They lure us in, right?
 

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by the way,

I really like where this thread goes, about the loafer. This would drive my woman bananas!
 
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