You beta friends

[returnofpigman]

Being in my 50s and having swallowed the Red Pill before, I notice my beta friends and the identified betas around me seem to be the grumpiest guys I know. Being mostly AFCs they seem to need some sort of outlet for their anger and frustration other than the boring if any sex with their wives. This seems to manifest in angry driving, interpersonal relationships, ****ty/ angry golf, seeking positions of power at work where their leadership is very subpar, etc. Anyone else?

 

[Lookatu]

Being in my 50s and having swallowed the Red Pill before, I notice my beta friends and the identified betas around me seem to be the grumpiest guys I know. Being mostly AFCs they seem to need some sort of outlet for their anger and frustration other than the boring if any sex with their wives. This seems to manifest in angry driving, interpersonal relationships, ****ty/ angry golf, seeking positions of power at work where their leadership is very subpar, etc. Anyone else?

Yes.
This definitely manifests in many ways with guys. There's a reason why the phrase "He should get laid more" is used often because it is true. Then you have guys that discovered how women are but haven't accepted it and made peace with it. That also fuels their anger and frustration.

 

[xplt]

In my circle these guys always need to pick on someone, trying to provocate. The funny part is, they clearly project their own insecuriteis on you. Like they want to drag you down to their own level.

A buddy of mine i.e. smokes pretty much weed. Therefore a friend of him always talks down on him because in his eyes he wastes his life. This friend of him is addicted to speed and can‘t function a single day without but breaks his mouth over some weed.

 

[bat soup]

Being in my 50s and having swallowed the Red Pill before, I notice my beta friends and the identified betas around me seem to be the grumpiest guys I know. Being mostly AFCs they seem to need some sort of outlet for their anger and frustration other than the boring if any sex with their wives. This seems to manifest in angry driving, interpersonal relationships, ****ty/ angry golf, seeking positions of power at work where their leadership is very subpar, etc. Anyone else?

I'm in a facebook group where guys are continuously posting about how frustrated they are with their wives. One guy was talking about his wife not wanting sex most of the time and giving him excuses and so on. Sorry, but I'd just leave. When you get to that point, it's time to go. Of course, this opinion doesn't go down too well with them.

 

[RickTheToad]

I'm in a facebook group where guys are continuously posting about how frustrated they are with their wives. One guy was talking about his wife not wanting sex most of the time and giving him excuses and so on. Sorry, but I'd just leave. When you get to that point, it's time to go. Of course, this opinion doesn't go down too well with them.

Why would anyone put up with that? He should really sit down with her and stress his dissatisfaction with not being able to access her orifices. Believe it or not, denying sex to a spouse is still a legal at fault divorce option in many states.

 

[returnofpigman]

Last night I was at the weekly trivia night at the local bar. The last few weeks a group of wives have been showing up for a GNO. This week only two showed with two men I assume may have been their husbands. These two, frumpy balding men looked miserable especially when I stopped to talk to the women. The women loved the attention and the guys looked irritated as hell. They wouldn’t even shake hands and introduce themselves to me. It was hilarious. Sometimes I wonder if these guys deserve to lose these precious little princesses they have been providing for.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

these precious little princesses

There is no such thing out there anymore. Only plates and LTR-material.

 

[returnofpigman]

There is no such thing out there anymore. Only plates and LTR-material.

Precious little princesses is sarcasm directed at their Beta Bucks enablers. The women I am referring to are very well provisioned by their chubby, boring husbands or whoever these two guys were. These guys looked miserable and generally confused. It manifested into posturing themselves as stern and strong men. That was a most definitely a facade. I have to admit, if I were them (blue pilled) and some dude with long hair who is relatively fit, dresses nicely and just walked up to talk to two women I was with I’d probably be a little threatened and irritated. Beta men fight over women in their zero sum worlds. Every single fight over a women I have witnessed has been initiated by an overly threatened beta.

 

[returnofpigman]

In my circle these guys always need to pick on someone, trying to provocate. The funny part is, they clearly project their own insecuriteis on you. Like they want to drag you down to their own level.

A buddy of mine i.e. smokes pretty much weed. Therefore a friend of him always talks down on him because in his eyes he wastes his life. This friend of him is addicted to speed and can‘t function a single day without but breaks his mouth over some weed.

I find myself to be less and less provocative and more observant of interpersonal dynamics around me. I do find a lot of humor in predicable reactions from Blue Pill, beta guys in social situations. When I am with Blue Pill guys and they start rambling on about women, I just refer them to the Rational Male and other books. What I think is great about these writings is that they strip away the blinders. Most men have the truth imbedded in them somewhere. Obviously there are some lost causes. A man has to want to change himself. A blue pill beta, alcoholic, smoker, drug user etc has to want to change himself for himself or he is just acting like he is changing.

 

[Machine10033]

I always think the problem goes back to these chicks husbands. Most men live their lives looking for their princess.. they workout... brush their teeth... take showers.. eat right.... go out and put on a great show that they are a fun and interesting guy and once they land that girl they think the show is over! I repeat this over and over... as a man you need to find your passion and work at it. Your drive and ambition will draw high quality females to you.... they will want you to give up that dream but it’s a test!!!! Keep at it... and put her in the back seat. If you give up... lose your drive and purpose.. you will hate yourself and she will hate you.

 

[returnofpigman]

Alcohol abuse

Absolutely. Alcohol is the number one self medication out there

 

[Lookatu]

Absolutely. Alcohol is the number one self medication out there

Dude, you sure about that being in Colorado? LOL

 

[bat soup]

Why would anyone put up with that? He should really sit down with her and stress his dissatisfaction with not being able to access her orifices. Believe it or not, denying sex to a spouse is still a legal at fault divorce option in many states.

I think some of these guys have children and are scared of what they'd lose in divorce. I personally wouldn't stick around for that kind of service.

 

[RickTheToad]

I think some of these guys have children and are scared of what they'd lose in divorce. I personally wouldn't stick around for that kind of service.

Temp. pain is better than wasting the rest of one's life away. After all, if he's unhappy, she is probably unhappy too. She's just waiting for the right time to leave. Females, in terms of relationships, let to plan out their attack plans. That's when a dude catches them off-guard, they are shell-shocked and do not understand how to respond, what happened and are taken by surprise. They should plan now, start moving assets into cash/coin/etc. and possibly even work less or laid-off; then file for divorce. Less to split up and pay if one was just fired.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Females, in terms of relationships, let to plan out their attack plans. That's when a dude catches them off-guard, they are shell-shocked and do not understand how to respond, what happened and are taken by surprise. They should plan now, start moving assets into cash/coin/etc. and possibly even work less or laid-off;

1st step when waking up from being a bluepilled AFC in a ****ty marriage: THIS! ^
Become financially independent enough to walk (or let walk) away at any point. This places you in a stronger position from where you can start to fight back.

My wife literally had an attack plan, involving finances, the kid, my parents. It is a war one has to fight that his wife has started and put her forces in place long before the poor fool even knew what the red pill is.

Been there, done that!

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Being in my 50s and having swallowed the Red Pill before, I notice my beta friends and the identified betas around me seem to be the grumpiest guys I know. Being mostly AFCs they seem to need some sort of outlet for their anger and frustration other than the boring if any sex with their wives. This seems to manifest in angry driving, interpersonal relationships, ****ty/ angry golf, seeking positions of power at work where their leadership is very subpar, etc. Anyone else?

It's called being unfulfilled. Deeply unfulfilled. Washed by the waves of time and social conditioning.

It is very frustrating for most men, and it is displayed in so many ways. You are, at least, aware of such a thing to be grateful not to feel that way. Or at least, not as much as them because you are walking your own path.

Modern Man Advice

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Friendship is a Beta Conception, Competition is Alpha.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Friendship is a Beta Conception, Competition is Alpha.

I think some people take this statement too seriously though, because you can be a good sport, lmao, I mean it sounds Beta AF to be a good sport but when you've displayed an unwillingness to rock the boat, then typically your along for the voyage and who knows where it will lead.

I know many friends who almost orbit the Alpha men in their lives just after scraps and they usually get some

 

[Çharismo]

I know many friends who almost orbit the Alpha men in their lives just after scraps and they usually get some

They are called parasites.

People like the one you mention hate seeing anyone come up no matter what position you are in life and feel that they are entitled to the things, women, or even the wealth you possess. They will suck you dry if you let them (no pun intended). They are basically around you so they can get a free handout. Literally snakes in disguise and very keen on taking advantage of the situations that present themselves. Being opportunistic is one thing but taking advantage of others is something else.

I’ve dealt with numerous people like that and have fallen prey to there games many times. In addition, people like this won’t hesitate to throw you under the bus if the opportunity presents itself. I’m still learning my lessons because I am human after all. It’s very tough to gauge who is who in this world because of all the masks people put up but I’m learning no matter what you do learn to move in silence and only associate with people that are on your level or even better...above you in some way. Contribute to there lives rather than leech off of them.

There is a saying that...everyone wants to see you do good but as long as you don’t do better than them. This applies not only to friends but relatives and especially the parasites in your life.

 

[FuzzX]

Yes. In one friend's case it resulted in fast cars, reckless driving and HARD drugs.