"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are Your Own Motivator

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chicksrock

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I used to always seek approval from family & friends before I did anything...
-whether it was the clothes I buy
-my university major
pretty much everything in my life.

This made me the biggest AFC ever. I never had confidence to do anything by myself.

I always thought others knew better.

Now I finally realise that ONLY I KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR ME!

RESULT
Despite getting lots of disaproval from family and friends,
I totally ignore them now...
I realise what they have to say is complete Shy*t
I don't waste my time seeking for their approval for anything from anyone anymore..
I just follow my own passions

MORAL:
Find trust in yourself, believe in yourself....do what you want to do.....have confidence in that .....and you will become successful in everything you do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Retrothe80sninja

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good advice, although you might want to add one thing.

I realise what they have to say is complete Shy*t
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Don't completely ignore constructive advice from people who know what they're talking about. Don't automaticaly accept their opinion but take it, evaluate it, and decide for yourself whether you want to use it or not. You might just be hurting yourself by not accepting opinions. Such as, when I play the piano, if I get an opinion about my playing from my dad who has been playing for around 40 years I am not going to simply dismiss the comment as useless, it might be very valuable indeed. Just wanted to add that point in.

~Retro
 
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