"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are the biggest peice of sh**....

Game617

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I got a text last night saying "You are the biggest piece of **** I ever met. You disgust me. I hate you. *******". She tells me she hopes I had a good fk and caught STD's. Tell's me it's over.

Does this mean she loves me????? Is this ********??? hahaha

I've been talking to her and seeing her. We got into a fight a couple weeks back, she said it's over and we're not compatible. (I was acting like an ******* to her.) We never talked about being exclusive.

What is your advice on this? I'm not begging and pleading for ****. And I'm not apologizing. Should I try to reach out to her because it's anger.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NotoriousGRK

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Dude you are so in :crackup:

Just be a man and make the first move. She will be all over you! :up:

Joking aside, get rid of her.
 

alpha_ash

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Hahaha great situation. Please share with us how you proceed and how it turns out!

If I were you, I would contact her calmly and give her a chance to meet and then have her apologize. After that, see what she does and also share with us!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazystarf

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She's probably having a fit due to her bpd, if she was really calm and kind before she's acting like this. Observe her behaviour to see if she's having a fit or if she's genuinely angry.

I still need to know more about your situation tho
 

VladPatton

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This is still better than being called 'just a friend'. Her hamster wheel is powering a small city at this point! Nice.
 

DonJuanabe

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Reply: "I didn't realize you wanted to be exclusive. Now I know..."

Leave it at that -- she won't know what to make of it. It says she is the needy one but doesn't say one way or the other whether you want to be exclusive and leaves her wondering if you do or don't.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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