"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are so nice

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This girl i use to sleep with awhile ago i bumped into recently. Its been about three weeks, we have been talking about once or twice a week. We hung out the other night and basically just relaxed together.

I made moves but she said, no no its to soon to do anything. I didnt get mad or bothered. I played off some good jokes to get her laughing.

What i have noticed though, she always says stuff like "you are too cute" or "you are so nice".

Im really not sure how to play this girl and she is hard to read. Also while i was in her room i noticed pictures of some dude that must have moved in while me and her were separated. That bothered me seeing a picture of her with another guy.

How would you play the situation im in? If she was with another guy why would she be talking or bothering with me. I dont have time to waste because there is to many girls out there i could be talking too.

Just forget her or give her more time?

Thanks for any input.

John
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Blatant truth

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This happened to me before. In my situation, another guy was parked in my old spot, if you know what I mean.

I don't think you're going to be hitting it anymore. You could try, only you know the whole situation, but try not to waste too much time with what may be a dead end.
 

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Originally posted by Legend
What i have noticed though, she always says stuff like "you are too cute" or "you are so nice".

Im really not sure how to play this girl and she is hard to read.
Hard to read? Not from the info you just gave.

Look up "********," and you're in for some revelation of the female psyche. Sneak preview: when a girl says stuff of the "ow, you're so nice/such a great friend/ so considerate/etc" it is usually chick talk for "we are officially *friends*".

You can try macking, but realize the situation you're in.
 
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