"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are seductive when...

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You are seductive when...

- you are relaxed and you relax other people by your relaxation
- when you feel good in your own skin and you make other people feel good in their skin (you don't judge yourself, you don't judge them... you accept people as they are)
- you smile from the heart, because every day is an opportunity to enjoy life and through your attitude you make other people see it that way too
- you offer an honest, genuine compliment without wanting to receive something in return
- when you every day you do one thing that scares you... because you know 90% of your fears are only in your head and you help other people see them that way too
- you challenge yourself and other people to continously evolve, to grow as human beings
- you know how to listen, without talking too much yourself...
- you know how to pay attention to other people's needs without putting your need for validation or attention first
- you know how to offer energy, not just receive it/steal it/suck it from other people

Can you think of other ways you can be seductive just by the thoughts, ideas, feelings you have about yourself and the world?

Help me add new ideas to this thread, by answering it yourself...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when you're not some punk running up in every girls face yelling "can i get your opinion? who lies more?"
 

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Metaphysical said:
when you're not some punk running up in every girls face yelling "can i get your opinion? who lies more?"
looool
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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