"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You are not a Princess!

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Luthor Rex said:
Here's what I think will happen:

Either the men of the West will find a culturally acceptable way to reassert our domination over women OR a stronger culture such as Islam will come along and do it for us.

The cynic in me says it's gonna take Allah to get sh!t done.
In the book "The Lucifer Principle," Bloom makes an interesting comparison between the rotation of alpha males in various groups of animals, and corresponding rotation the "alpha countries" in recent world history, going back several hundred years.

The alphas that are on their way down exhibit the same behavior, every time. So much so that observers can see it coming (as pointed out in Frans der Waals "Chimpanzee Politics").

Bloom draws a historical comparison in countries that were "alpha countries" on their way down as well, and showed they exhibited basically the same characteristics.

His conclusion is that the next "alpha country" will be an Islamic country, similar to your prediction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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taiyuu_otoko said:
In the book "The Lucifer Principle," Bloom makes an interesting comparison between the rotation of alpha males in various groups of animals, and corresponding rotation the "alpha countries" in recent world history, going back several hundred years.
I never read that book, but I just downloaded a pdf of it so I'll check it out later.

It's interesting that people can see it coming and yet can't or won't seem to figure out what to do about it. I wonder if there were any civilizations that saw it coming and some how reversed course...
 

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Proselytiser said:
Really? How many racists you think walked up to Mike Tyson and called him a ******?
Not a good example since racists people are p*ssies who's only outlets to rage are the internet and a few other racists.

I'm just saying that some people are'nt going to treat them the way they think they should be treated and that it should'nt be their responsiblity to somehow change that persons feeling/actions towards em.

These guys think some woman act like "Princesses" now ?
Just wait until they get the memo that a bunch of men are making themselves responsibile for a woman's actions.
How is it any different than a "Nice Guy" ?
 

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Phenomenal One said:
Not a good example since racists people are p*ssies who's only outlets to rage are the internet and a few other racists.

I'm just saying that some people are'nt going to treat them the way they think they should be treated and that it should'nt be their responsiblity to somehow change that persons feeling/actions towards em.

These guys think some woman act like "Princesses" now ?
Just wait until they get the memo that a bunch of men are making themselves responsibile for a woman's actions.
How is it any different than a "Nice Guy" ?
I make sure people respect my personal boundaries as should anyone else, all I'm saying
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Phenomenal One said:
Not a good example since racists people are p*ssies who's only outlets to rage are the internet and a few other racists.

I'm just saying that some people are'nt going to treat them the way they think they should be treated and that it should'nt be their responsiblity to somehow change that persons feeling/actions towards em.

These guys think some woman act like "Princesses" now ?
Just wait until they get the memo that a bunch of men are making themselves responsibile for a woman's actions.
How is it any different than a "Nice Guy" ?
You are not responsible for a girl's actions. But you have the ability to lead her and influence her actions. So if you fail to lead her and you get trampled by her, you only have yourself to blame.
 

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This^^^

Absolutely true !!!!

Should be written in stone somewhere.

Any time you are looking to blame......take a good hard look at yourself and YOUR actions first.
 

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I make sure people respect my personal boundaries as should anyone else, all I'm saying
I know what you mean but there are some people who never will, and those are the people that need to be cut out of your life.

You are not responsible for a girl's actions. But you have the ability to lead her and influence her actions. So if you fail to lead her and you get trampled by her, you only have yourself to blame.
Of course but thinkin that's the way to do it 100% is'nt good, there comes a point were a woman does'nt want to be lead and influenced by YOU.

Like i've said many times it's follish to believe that "leading your woman" is the answer to everything.
 
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