"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are just a random sucker, then you walk with a girl and become george clooney

Who Dares Win

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Guess most of you know it but just to talk about how sheep minded and moronic women are.

So I've been walking a busy street in the center yesterday to buy some drinks for my place, while alone hardly any girl gave me strong attention or crossed eye with me I could have been a successful spy considering the non existant amount of attention I was getting.

Then I met this girl I know which was going to the same place of me and decided to tag along.
She is a goodlooking girl, not a stunner but above average here.

Well almost every girl was looking at me right in my eyes then looking at her then at me again, attention and open body language from most of the girls I walked near by.

Not sure if its mostly because I gain value by being seeing with a goodlooking girl, or if its because the anti-creep shield (free service against all single man) disappeared.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It is very easy for women to get jealous or envious of other women, sad but true.
 

MrNiceGuy23

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I get looks from women when I'm out regardless of whether or not I'm with my girl, but it's all pretty simple for why women act like this.

I don't know you but judging by the post you probably look like an average man, so when you're out alone nothing of interest pops into a girl's mind when you pass by so she has no reason to look at you. When you're with another woman, especially a woman who may come off as "out of your league," then women immediately become interested thinking "wow he's with her? I wonder why she chose him." They have reason now to think maybe there is something special about you that they couldn't see at first glance.

Women are always curious about what they can't have. A single guy is a single guy, but a guy with a woman had to do something to win her over, that intrigues them.
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
I get looks from women when I'm out regardless of whether or not I'm with my girl, but it's all pretty simple for why women act like this.

I don't know you but judging by the post you probably look like an average man, so when you're out alone nothing of interest pops into a girl's mind when you pass by so she has no reason to look at you. When you're with another woman, especially a woman who may come off as "out of your league," then women immediately become interested thinking "wow he's with her? I wonder why she chose him." They have reason now to think maybe there is something special about you that they couldn't see at first glance.

Women are always curious about what they can't have. A single guy is a single guy, but a guy with a woman had to do something to win her over, that intrigues them.

This ^
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Feast or Famine.

Women are more attracted to guys whom they believe are taken. When you have a girl it becomes easier to attract other women through pre-selection. When you don't have a woman it's harder to get one.

I experienced this the other night walking through Walmart with my attractive asian neighbor. I noticed many women looking at me and the cashier chatted me up because she thought we were together, but I was giving her a ride because her car broke down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My last ex used to point out how whenever we went out together women would check me out, which I noticed but didn't mention to her, but then when I wasn't looking they would give her evil looks, which I hadn't noticed until she pointed it out. It is a combination of "social proof" AND women wanting what other women have. They do the same thing with handbags and shoes, we are basically accessories to the average woman, haha. Use that information to your advantage.
 

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Guess most of you know it but just to talk about how sheep minded and moronic women are.

They are neither. This is preselection 101.
 

Zarky

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Guess most of you know it but just to talk about how sheep minded and moronic women are.
Let me get this straight. You've spent the last year and half posting on a forum about how to attract and date "sheep minded and moronic" people?
 

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TheException said:
Guess most of you know it but just to talk about how sheep minded and moronic women are.

They are neither. This is preselection 101.
Even so it's still sheep minded and moronic. You're the same guy, they're assuming the girl is romantically interested in you and therefore you are not really available.

Anyway this is an example of why I say attraction is mostly visual. Just by looking at you, women make all kinds of (false) assumptions and conclusions of your value and attractiveness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stagger Lee said:
Even so it's still sheep minded and moronic. You're the same guy, they're assuming the girl is romantically interested in you and therefore you are not really available.

Anyway this is an example of why I say attraction is mostly visual. Just by looking at you, women make all kinds of (false) assumptions and conclusions of your value and attractiveness.
What's sad is that, once their initial perception DOESN'T match reality - they lose interest. It's not you or even your looks they care about (beyond sex, anyway), but your status and value they assume you to have as a result of it. That's why faking it until you make it isn't the worst idea, but sharing all sorts of weaknesses, failures, and insecurities (or even being the part) is. Not many people care about how real or genuine you are; if you have morals, standards, etc. Reputation is huge in the "game".
 
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