"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are doing NC right when...

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-She invites you to her birthday party only reserved for a close few
-She sends you images and texts of her partying/ socialising
-Tries to call you from another phone
-acts awkward when you are around

Of course I'm not reacting nor replying. Heck, I have a road trip planned with two dutch ladies on the night of her party :D Not to mention picking myself up, joining the gym, wardrobe rethink (which has my plates/ girls giving me 'the look') and tackling life head on.

... Or is it simply I'm the one failing because it has got me mildly annoyed?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah mate.

And this time compared to previous, I learnt to say no thanks to being just friends because she said she just was not ready. I don't think she expected it because she's your typical HB 9.5 who works as a model. I keep kicking myself wondering how things may have gone had I not gone AFC on her but you lose some, you win some.
 
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NotAgain said:
-She invites you to her birthday party only reserved for a close few
-She sends you images and texts of her partying/ socialising
-Tries to call you from another phone
-acts awkward when you are around
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Well to me,you doing NC correctly doesn't have anything to do with HER. So her trying to call you or sending you pics means nothing.


To me,you know you're doing "No Contact" right when you're so wrapped up in your own life......school,work,hobbies,family and friends,that the thought of her almost NEVER crosses your mind.
 
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