You are doing NC right when...

[NotAgain]

-She invites you to her birthday party only reserved for a close few
-She sends you images and texts of her partying/ socialising
-Tries to call you from another phone
-acts awkward when you are around

Of course I'm not reacting nor replying. Heck, I have a road trip planned with two dutch ladies on the night of her party Not to mention picking myself up, joining the gym, wardrobe rethink (which has my plates/ girls giving me 'the look') and tackling life head on.

... Or is it simply I'm the one failing because it has got me mildly annoyed?

 

[NotAgain]

Yeah mate.

And this time compared to previous, I learnt to say no thanks to being just friends because she said she just was not ready. I don't think she expected it because she's your typical HB 9.5 who works as a model. I keep kicking myself wondering how things may have gone had I not gone AFC on her but you lose some, you win some.

 

[BraddH]

"You win some, you lose some" Yes. This. You'r ego feels great but once you grow an ego, you have utterly failed. Alphas don't have egos.

 

[Igetit!]

-She invites you to her birthday party only reserved for a close few
-She sends you images and texts of her partying/ socialising
-Tries to call you from another phone
-acts awkward when you are around

Well to me,you doing NC correctly doesn't have anything to do with HER. So her trying to call you or sending you pics means nothing.


To me,you know you're doing "No Contact" right when you're so wrapped up in your own life......school,work,hobbies,family and friends,that the thought of her almost NEVER crosses your mind.