"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YOU are all you need, ever.

Supereuroman

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I'll take a quick second to write some thoughts for the benefit of us all. This is a good forum, and there are definitely good tips from people (sex tips and on being a man), but it's all about experience. I'm not telling you to get off the forum, as this is definitely a good means to improving yourself, but improvement in other areas of your life is good too.

Take a walk outside, and there are countless cute women enthusiastic to talk to you. Talk to everyone of them, conditions permitting. Some will be cold, and ignore your guts- keep moving on; those are not the type of women you want around in your life, be thankful that she saved you valuable time. Soon after you get a feel for it, you can almost tell which type of girls you'd enjoy spending time seeing just from that initial interaction. I know many here are looking for good LTRs, so forget the Bars and Clubs. Someone pointed out that people, women included, go there as an escape.. they're not in LIFE. Might as well add beds in those venues, converting them into hotels.


Once you are able to talk to anyone when out and about, you will come to the realization that there are more girls for you than you could ever have time for. You will have more emails/phone numbers than you ever know how to deal with and will not waste time thinking about girls that don't reciprocate your valued affection. No more one-itis. No more time wasted thinking how many days to do what etc. The limited valuable time you have will be used towards something to IMPROVE YOURSELF, but only after that will everything fall into place.

We live in the matrix. There are no limits, EVER. It's up to you to have faith to do what is necessary and be a man- live the life and everything else follows. Believe in yourself. This of course requires experience and practice, but just do it. We are all here because we have strong, powerful genes that our parents gave us that were passed from millions of years, so we all can do it.

Let's continue growing and never ceasing self-improvement as a man, as a community, as a species.

SuperMan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BingoBango

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Good post.
 

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I like this post aswell. It's very encouraging. But I don't believe that you shouldn't try to game girls in bars and out on the town in general. I agree that you shouldn't ONLY focus on that though..

Keep 'em coming..
 

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bars women got there asan escape " interesting thought
can you develop sir?

TALKINGH TO ANY WOMEN EVERY WOMEN SURE BUT IT S SO EASY TO LOSE COURAGE AFTER A COUPLE OF WEEKS when you still hyaven t got any telephone numbers
how do you cope with that ?

IT ALL VERY WELL TO TALK TO THE *****FOLK ABOUT WHETEVER
but do you make the convo sexual



friend what s your own experience of the seduction process YOUR SUCCESSES AND FAILURES § WILL YOU LET US KNOW ?
 
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