"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yookiwooki's Bulking Journal

Yookiwooki

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Age: 18
Weight: 144 lbs.
Height:6'0''

Goal: Gain 10 lbs of muscle over the summer (by September)

I've tried a few times over the last year to get a program going to bulk up. Now that the summer is here I'll have plenty of time to make a serious effort.


Exercise:

I will be following roughly what Jahidi used to start in his journal. Rippetoe's program alternating Option A and Option B 3 times a week. I will be exercising Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday.

The biggest thing to work on right now is technique and getting comfortable with the motions.

I will not be doing significant cardio at all. Because of my low body fat, my sixpack is very defined. If I notice a loss of definition there, then I'll work some cardio into the program.


Diet:

This will be the harder part for me. I'm pretty much a skinny **** and I have trouble finishing my meals at most restaurants. Fitting enough calories down my throat will be a challenge. Right now, I'm just trying to eat whenever I don't feel full, and trying to focus on getting enough protein, carbs, and fat.

Are there specific meals I can have that put more calories into a smaller size?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jahidi

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Good luck man! Rippetoes is a great routine.

I'm the exact same way with the food, I get full all the time halfway through meals. I've found shakes are a lot easier to get down than food. I get full after 4 cooked eggs but I can drink a shake with 4 raw eggs and barely feel them. So search around this board and try some shake recipes.

The basic shake I have is 2 scoops of whey, 4 raw eggs, and 500ml milk which works out to almost 800 calories and almost 100 grams of protein. Also look in the first page of my journal, Stallion posted the recipe to a huge shake there. I'm not saying you should underestimate the importance of solid food but shakes are great to get extra calories in between meals.
 

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Are there specific meals I can have that put more calories into a smaller size?

Use liquid meals. 4 eggs + 2/3 scoops of protein + milk/water + 1 cup oats -> in a blender. Use that 3 times a day + 3 solid meals you'll gain weight.

Check out where to start in the vault.

Good luck
 

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Keep some form of cardio man. Do it on off-days.

Between workouts, cardio gets blood moving through the muscles and thus speeds recovery/growth.
 

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Tuesday

Ok, first day following the plan.

Squat:
Bar X 8
65lbs. X 5
95 X 4
125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5 (NOTE: Fell backwards on last rep. This was really scary but luckily I didn't hurt anything. Definitely need to work on form for this, to avoid this happening again.)

Standing Barbell Military Press
65lbs. X 5
65 X 5
65 X 5

Bent Rows
95lbs. X 5
95 X 5
95 X 5

Chin-ups
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8



Definitely need to work on form before I put on significant weights.

Also, doing this workout 3 times a week doesn't seem to be very much. What is the reason for taking so much time off?

I will post my diet for today tonight or tomorrow morning, maybe you guys can give me suggestions specifically where to add foods.

Now I'm gonna try that shake you mentioned. Never drank raw eggs before...
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are there specific meals I can have that put more calories into a smaller size?

try bacon and (fried) egg sandwiches.
 

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Yookiwooki said:
Also, doing this workout 3 times a week doesn't seem to be very much.
This routine requires that you squat every workout, and as your squat goes up, you'll be needing (and wanting) the rest before you squat again.
 

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I'm worried about how I fell today during squats. I think another fall like that could really injure me. Would it be appropriate to use the sliding supported squat bar, or is that not getting the full effect?
 

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Ok, second day on this program and I didn't fall again. Yay!

Deadlift:
Bar X 5
95 X 5
115 X 5
135 X 5

Squat: (Used sliding bar rack. Is this O.K.?)
115 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Bench Press:
115 X 5
115 X 5
120 X 5

Dips:
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8

I think I have gotten the hang of the form for some of these exercises. Next time I'm going to push myself.

I will be doing my next workout on Sunday rather than Saturday because I will be busy with job orientation and such all day.

About doing cardio... I'm going to be riding my bike to work every day, and that is like a 15-20 min. ride with lots of hills. I think just my lifestyle will be enough cardio to keep me healthy.
 

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Yookiwooki said:
Would it be appropriate to use the sliding supported squat bar
The experts here will tell you...

Yookiwooki said:
or is that not getting the full effect?
...that you just answered your own question. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sunday (aka Saturday)

Back from the gym:

Chin-Up:
8 X Body Weight
8 X Body Weight

Bent Row: (Reeaaaallllyyy need to work on form)
115 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Squat:
(This was a ****show. First 2 sets were ok. Last set I asked someone to watch me and make sure I didn't drop it like last time. The last rep he basically had to pull me up. I'm considering not going below parallel for a while with this because I can't keep failing on the last set and I don't think my weight is very high to begin with.)

135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 4/5

Millitary Press:
95 X 4
85 X 5
85 X 4


My body weight fluctuates +/- 2 pounds, but I think I'm weighing myself consistently as 1 pound heavier since I started. :D

I'm putting this link here for my reference, this is the same as the link on jahidi's original first page:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=712752
 

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Yookiwooki said:
Back from the gym:

Chin-Up:
8 X Body Weight
8 X Body Weight

Bent Row: (Reeaaaallllyyy need to work on form)
115 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Squat:
(This was a ****show. First 2 sets were ok. Last set I asked someone to watch me and make sure I didn't drop it like last time. The last rep he basically had to pull me up. I'm considering not going below parallel for a while with this because I can't keep failing on the last set and I don't think my weight is very high to begin with.)

135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 4/5

Millitary Press:
95 X 4
85 X 5
85 X 4


My body weight fluctuates +/- 2 pounds, but I think I'm weighing myself consistently as 1 pound heavier since I started. :D

I'm putting this link here for my reference, this is the same as the link on jahidi's original first page:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=712752

Keep going below parallel just use lighter weight for the squats until you get the form worked out then slowly start adding more weight.
 

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Workout:

Deadlift:
115 X 5
115 X 5

Power Cleans: (Practicing form)
95 X 5
95 X 5
95 X 5

Benchpress:
125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5

Squats: (Decided to do lower weight, and then moved to sliding bar rack after 2nd set.)
115 X 5
115 X 5
(Moved to sliding bar)
125 X 5
125 X 5

Dips:
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8
 

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Workout:

Squats:
85 X 5
105 X 5
115 X 5
115 X 5
115 X 5

Military Press:
85 X 5
85 X 5
85 X 5

Bent Rows:
110 X 5
110 X 5
85 X 5

Pullups:
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8
 

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Sunday (Saturday)

Workout:

Deadlifts:
135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Squat: (Feels much better. I think I'm getting the hang of this)
115 X 5
115 X 5
115 X 5

Dips:
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8

Bench Press: (Sunburn on my back made this not fun haha)
115 X 5
115 X 5
115 X 5

Overall, I'm feeling more comfortable in the gym.
Officially weigh 147 now, so I'm starting to gain weight.
I work at a pool, and I'm starting to get compliments on my body, glad to know something is working.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why dosen't the plan include incline or decline bench presses?

Dosent just doing flat bench press for your chest make you grow ice cream cone tits?
 

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I've been sick for the past 3 days blahh

I forgot to post Tuesday's workout, but it is enough to say that I had a normal day.

Friday's Workout (Too sick on Thrusday):

Squat:
125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5

Deadlift:
135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Bench Press:
125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5

Dips:
Body Weight X 8
Body Weight X 8


I weighed in at 148lbs today!!!
Something must be working...
 

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Ok, so im not really following a schedule anymore for working out... I'm just working out every other day and when I need it I'll take a two day break.

Still sick. Congestion is gone but now I have a sore throat :(

Workout:

Bent Rows: (Used dumbells, is this ok every once and a while?)
70 X 5
70 X 5
80 X 5

Military Press: (Also dumbells)
70 X 5
70 X 5
70 X 5

Squats: (Realized that if I use a power rack I dont need to even worry about falling... nice :D)
125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5

Pullups.... you know the drill

Again, why does the program only include flat bench presses? Isn't that only getting one part of the chest?

Finally I have some great news... I just hit 150 lbs!!!!! heaviest I've been in my life! this is really working!!!
 

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Congrats on progress keep on plugging away!
 

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Late workout today, i got to the gym at like 8:30

Squats: Decided to push it today, felt great. I might continue adding weight more liberally.

135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Deadlifts:

135 X 5
135 X 5
135 X 5

Bench Press: (I really need to get a spotter so I can add weight faster)

125 X 5
125 X 5
125 X 5

Pullups:
2 X 8 (Body Weight)

Feelin good this week, still seeing results and that is really helping me stay motivated...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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