"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yoga, yay or nay?

Huffman

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I've just seen a good deal for yoga beginner's classes... do you think it's any good?

I mean yes I'm a pervert and hope there's hot girls there ;) but apart from that, do you think I'll have some real benefits for my body? Or is it just esoteric mumbojumbo for people who don't want to do real sport?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vice

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It's great; the women, the experience, and how you feel afterwards.

Talk to women AFTER the class ends. You're supposed to stay quiet before and during the whole thing.

And yoga is based on several thousand year old principles, there is no "esoteric mumbojumbo".
 

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I've never tried yoga but it's highly recommended for sports because it increases flexibility and therefore greatly reduces the risk of injury. However it will not REPLACE sport if that's what you're asking.
 

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I love yoga, me and my boyfriend do it every thursday and then he puts his **** in my ass.
 

omkara

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You got your wires crossed man. India has a much lower rate of homosexuality than the UK does. It's practically unheard of there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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powpow

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I second that. yoga is completely legit. seems feminine but studies say it ups your testosterone by decreasing your stress. I fell asleep my first yoga class. clears your brain. if you get really into it, then youll enjoy your life better. I do like 10 minutes of yoga every night before I sleep - and I sleep like a boss.
 

omkara

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Good to hear that. Sounds like exactly what I need, in terms of endorphins and clearing your head and stuff. My cortisol levels are also way high bc of my new job. (The ideal hormone signature for attracting females is high T, low cortisol). I'm planning to take a course in spring quarter. I would be nervous to be around all those girls but I'm sure that would be a good thing too to expand my comfort zone.
 

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Ease said:
I love yoga, me and my boyfriend do it every thursday and then he puts his **** in my ass.
I guess the "Master Don Juan" title is basically for the guys who have the most posts and not necessarily how great they are at giving advice.
 

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I recommend Yoga. It is a fantastic supplement to any workout/sport you are currently in, or looking to start. Flexibility and stability are key to any athletic movement, and nothing gives you that more efficiently than yoga (possibly some martial arts, but I would say that takes longer).

And of course, the women are a major plus.

Oh yeah, and it's NOT easy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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