"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yo! what is more of a turnoff than this?

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Ever start talking to a chick and when she tells you her name its like Stevie, Mikey, something along those dykish ways?..

I was talking to this HB7 who I started chatting up about cologne's at the mall. Totally wasn't dykish AT ALL! So when I peaked her interest she asked me my name. I said "Rico Suave" LOL After she laughed I said "Redknight, whats yours? " She said "Stevie."

Okay, that turned me off, you can all call me shallow now, but I'm picky as a
mutha! When I'm f**king in bed I don't want to whisper "Oh Stevie." Get my point? :D

Anyone ever experience such a travesty?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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heh

last year i was with a girl called stevie one night. once my mates found out they totally ripped the piss outa me.

were you in england yeh? i've only ever heard one girl in my life who called herself stevie
 
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Are you sure she was serious?
 
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hahahah Gav Nope, not in England!!

ImmortalDragon - I know for fact she was serious. My intuition about them being serious or joking has gotten 10 times better over the last couple years..
 
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Originally posted by gav
heh

last year i was with a girl called stevie one night. once my mates found out they totally ripped the piss outa me.

were you in england yeh? i've only ever heard one girl in my life who called herself stevie
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Anybody ever heard of Stevie Nicks? As in Fleetwood Mac? She was REAL cute in the seventies...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wonder who names these broads? :confused:
 
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i think a chick with an adams apple who walks like she has a c0ck, that would turn me off, even if it called herself chrissy, or alexandra, or melissa, or kendra, or whateverr
 
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I had a friend dating a chick named Tyler. I think he got some crap for that. And ya I think its a turnoff too.
 
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Sorry but her parents named her stevie what the fvck can she do about it. It aint like her name was Bob or Joe. I might have given a friend sh1t about his girlfriends name in high school but what is the point?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't consider it a turn-OFF to have a wierd name for your gender (specially since mine is "Alexi" I guess I don't have a right to), but I definitely find it a turn-ON to have a HOT name (like a girl named "Heidi" or "Monique" or something)

Alexi
 
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stevie is short for stephany,

ive known quite a few chicks that went by stevie, though. Its kinda wierd when we talk about them cause its like, which stevie? we have a few guy friends named stevie, too! lol
 
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"Most people call me Jennifer...(in a heavy low voice)...But you can call me John"
 
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I dated a girl that was named Mysteria. Wow, did she live up to that name.

Always kept telling me to pick her up at places where it's not even close to her house. She even made me wear a blindfold while I supposedly went into her home. I never got her number but she had mines so she would be giving me all these caller-id blocked calls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
I dated a girl that was named Mysteria. Wow, did she live up to that name.

Always kept telling me to pick her up at places where it's not even close to her house. She even made me wear a blindfold while I supposedly went into her home. I never got her number but she had mines so she would be giving me all these caller-id blocked calls.
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Wow, dude. That sounds really freakin' awesome! She sounds pretty fun.
 
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