"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yo! what is more of a turnoff than this?

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Ever start talking to a chick and when she tells you her name its like Stevie, Mikey, something along those dykish ways?..

I was talking to this HB7 who I started chatting up about cologne's at the mall. Totally wasn't dykish AT ALL! So when I peaked her interest she asked me my name. I said "Rico Suave" LOL After she laughed I said "Redknight, whats yours? " She said "Stevie."

Okay, that turned me off, you can all call me shallow now, but I'm picky as a
mutha! When I'm f**king in bed I don't want to whisper "Oh Stevie." Get my point? :D

Anyone ever experience such a travesty?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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heh

last year i was with a girl called stevie one night. once my mates found out they totally ripped the piss outa me.

were you in england yeh? i've only ever heard one girl in my life who called herself stevie
 
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Are you sure she was serious?
 
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hahahah Gav Nope, not in England!!

ImmortalDragon - I know for fact she was serious. My intuition about them being serious or joking has gotten 10 times better over the last couple years..
 
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Originally posted by gav
heh

last year i was with a girl called stevie one night. once my mates found out they totally ripped the piss outa me.

were you in england yeh? i've only ever heard one girl in my life who called herself stevie
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Anybody ever heard of Stevie Nicks? As in Fleetwood Mac? She was REAL cute in the seventies...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wonder who names these broads? :confused:
 
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i think a chick with an adams apple who walks like she has a c0ck, that would turn me off, even if it called herself chrissy, or alexandra, or melissa, or kendra, or whateverr
 
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I had a friend dating a chick named Tyler. I think he got some crap for that. And ya I think its a turnoff too.
 
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Sorry but her parents named her stevie what the fvck can she do about it. It aint like her name was Bob or Joe. I might have given a friend sh1t about his girlfriends name in high school but what is the point?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't consider it a turn-OFF to have a wierd name for your gender (specially since mine is "Alexi" I guess I don't have a right to), but I definitely find it a turn-ON to have a HOT name (like a girl named "Heidi" or "Monique" or something)

Alexi
 
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stevie is short for stephany,

ive known quite a few chicks that went by stevie, though. Its kinda wierd when we talk about them cause its like, which stevie? we have a few guy friends named stevie, too! lol
 
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"Most people call me Jennifer...(in a heavy low voice)...But you can call me John"
 
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I dated a girl that was named Mysteria. Wow, did she live up to that name.

Always kept telling me to pick her up at places where it's not even close to her house. She even made me wear a blindfold while I supposedly went into her home. I never got her number but she had mines so she would be giving me all these caller-id blocked calls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
I dated a girl that was named Mysteria. Wow, did she live up to that name.

Always kept telling me to pick her up at places where it's not even close to her house. She even made me wear a blindfold while I supposedly went into her home. I never got her number but she had mines so she would be giving me all these caller-id blocked calls.
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Wow, dude. That sounds really freakin' awesome! She sounds pretty fun.
 
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