Yo help me out

[Fabrizio]

yo, i need help
in my hometown here in california, i go to this boxing gym to train and stuff, i been going there for about 2 months now, well today there were these two new girls that came in, and one of them is hot, well both of them but one is hotter than the other, she is like a 9. well they worked out, werent that good, i didnt pay much attention to the other one. my friend is gonna have this party at his house this weekend, and i dont know how to approach her, cause she is always with this other girl, who seems older. I wanna get her number and talk to her and maybe get her to go.
any ideas on how i should approach and stuff, the only excuse i would find is if i needed to give her a few pointers and such, that would break the ice, but if i dont have a chance to, any other ways? also unlike what people think, boxing is really hard and she might not endure all the training, so i dont know for how long she will be going, the party is this saturday, we only train for monday through thursday, help me out

 

[DJoneday]

Why sugar coat it in pointers? Chicks who beat around the bush make us mad, why do the same to her? Just say "hey", start a conversation with maybe a little joking about how she's doing something wrong (in a non-offensive way, this is a first impression), and take it from there.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by DJoneday
Just say "hey", start a conversation with maybe a little joking about how she's doing something wrong (in a non-offensive way, this is a first impression), and take it from there.

Is that really so complicated...

I dunno, I guess its just one of those things you pick up after you read the bible.


A simple Hey goes a long Way.

 

[Fabrizio]

yea, but shes always with that other girl

 

[Vincent]

Hey ladies?

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Vincent
Hey ladies?

hey ladies, what you two up to,
**********
really? thats interesting,
**********
oh im just training for health, listen i got a party goin on this weekend, yo two should drop by
************
well write down your number for me and ill let you know the details
*************
ill see you around, i gotta finish my workout

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

picking up women at the gym, id sure not be happy if some dumb chick came to me when i was resting between sets, i mean a gym is a gym its like maccin in church, get some class damn.

 

[Fabrizio]

its a boxing gym, theres time before it starts, while everyone is wrapping their hands and getting weighed in, no time during exercises, but time between round intervals at the bags, and afterwards, while everyone is getting weighed out and dressing to leave. so i dont know, i'll approach them, maybe offer to teach them how to wrap hands and stuff, then maybe get some kino in if i gotta teach them technique and stuff. should i invite to the party before the number or get the number, call then invite, c'mon guys quit hatin, that girl gots a fine a$$

 

[DJoneday]

you seem like you really want to introduce yourself by helping her out - there's no reason for that.

Acting like you're just interested in helping her wrap her hands will come off as fake and you'll look like you're trying to hide the fact that you're flirting. Just say hey and get their names, let them know yours, make a few jokes (not pre-rehearsed jokes, ones about the situation), when it's almost time to start, get a number or two, mention a party if there is one, then go back to your boxing.

 

[rappermas]

Dude, fabrizio, forget the pointers.

Just go up and say hi. Tell her she seems cool enough to come to a party with you, and ask for her number. It's really not rocket science, and I'm thankful for that.

x = (-b +- sqrt (b^2 - 4ac))/2a
e = mc^2
y = mx+b
sinx^2 + cosx^2 = tanx^2 (i think)
Sn = n(a1 + an)/2
an = a1 + (n - 1)d

LOL. It's a lot easier than that.

 

[Jerky Boi]

Originally posted by rappermas
Dude, fabrizio, forget the pointers.

Just go up and say hi. Tell her she seems cool enough to come to a party with you, and ask for her number. It's really not rocket science, and I'm thankful for that.

x = (-b +- sqrt (b^2 - 4ac))/2a
e = mc^2
y = mx+b
sinx^2 + cosx^2 = tanx^2 (i think)
Sn = n(a1 + an)/2
an = a1 + (n - 1)d

LOL. It's a lot easier than that.

Haha, agreed. Instead of thinking it out all the way through all the time, go up to her and talk to her. You said something about the other girl being around. Hell, just invite her too! No harm done in that. Aside from the usual "read the bible" reply, I'm going to try and give you a few tips to help you out from my experiences. When you approach, don't automatically give her tips, you might rub her the wrong way. Just casually go up, maybe sit on a machine beside her, and start some small talk. Always remember, keep it simple the first time. Throw in the fact that you're having a party on Saturday, tell her you'd like to go, and close with the number. Simple as that. Good luck

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Fabrizio
its a boxing gym, theres time before it starts, while everyone is wrapping their hands and getting weighed in, no time during exercises, but time between round intervals at the bags, and afterwards, while everyone is getting weighed out and dressing to leave. so i dont know, i'll approach them, maybe offer to teach them how to wrap hands and stuff, then maybe get some kino in if i gotta teach them technique and stuff. should i invite to the party before the number or get the number, call then invite, c'mon guys quit hatin, that girl gots a fine a$$

invite her to party, if she doesnt know location either bring a sheet, with directions - as for any public party, (and a good bodygaurd like me )
or say im gona have to call ya and give directions.

 

[Fabrizio]

k thanks, i think i can pull it off, if only she goes tomorrow, she hasnt gone the past 2 days, typical beginner boxers, thinking its easy then realizing the truth (especially when they try to get up the next morning lol) thanks for helpin a homie out