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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ying Yang Twins teaching AFCs a good lesson with their music!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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i like.
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music like this doesnt exist anymore because every song is now about chumping yourselves out to women
Kidfabulous
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Pretty good song. Now all the rap songs are about meeting a girl at a bar and buying her drinks...
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TRUE!AFC Savior said:
It's like:
"I walked into the bar the other night, I love the women so I had to fight, to show your manliness show my drift, just get down and buy her gifts!"
Wow, doesn't look like I'll be the next Snoop Dog LOL
Well, this is different, I like it...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Umm... That song was released in 2003... I don't think the last of that type of song died 4 years ago...AFC Savior said:
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BUMP
seriously, if u just even listen to the lyrics and look at the reactions on these guys faces while singing about some woman, you will feel more DJ instantly
seriously, if u just even listen to the lyrics and look at the reactions on these guys faces while singing about some woman, you will feel more DJ instantly
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that video was the dumbest... most ghetto-est video i've have EVER seen.Treetz said:
i can't stand those types of music videos.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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ok Michele, focus on the video i posted cuz thats the whole point of the thread
i cant control the bullshyt that others post on my thread
i cant control the bullshyt that others post on my thread
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I'm sorry, but rappers always have the ugliest females. In their videos, in their personal lives, etc. I can't see for the life of me why anyone would find them appealing.
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meitenesrigas said:
troll
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So you call me a troll because I have good taste? One word posts should get tossed. Go back to hitting on 35 year old mothers of two.AFC Savior said:
Those fools were disgusting. What kind of girls wouldn't vomit seeing something like that?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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My God this is horrible music. Looks like it was written, produced and recorded in 15 minutes 
Rollo Tomassi
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In a world of media dedicated to reinforcing the AFC mindset, this song is a cool drink of water in vast desert.
That's my way of saying I liked it.
That's my way of saying I liked it.
Kidfabulous
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The point isn't the artists themselves or the people in the video; it's the message.
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hmmm all the AFC's are the one talking smack about the ying yang twins and their music, yet the ying yang twins get SOOOO MUCH azz, its easy for those haters to come out and do what they do - HATE
get your nerdy heads outta your asses and appreciate the pimpness and OUT OF MATRIX feeling of the lyrics of this song
also notice how the Ying Yang twins are smooth, stylish, and most likely very suave with the ladies - they arent all uptight and nerdy
get your nerdy heads outta your asses and appreciate the pimpness and OUT OF MATRIX feeling of the lyrics of this song
also notice how the Ying Yang twins are smooth, stylish, and most likely very suave with the ladies - they arent all uptight and nerdy
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.