"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yikes! Didn't know how effective kino was.

Arctic_FoX

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OK guys. I took this girl out on a date, we went to a comic festival (which, I found out later, that she absolutely adored), and then later for dinner at a sushi restaurant. I kept my cool and joked a bit, asked a lot about her, her work and her family etc... I kinoed her a lot but it didn't have any effect in the early part of the afternoon.

But then, later in the evening, everything started to change, because she knew places better than me in my neighbourhood, but whenever she would give me a direction she would grab my arm, hand, shirt or whatever. We took the train home and she was literally sleeping on my shoulder.

Thanks for all the tips guys, now I do know that they really work. I've seen the light, I'VE SEEN THE LIGHT!

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"Life is a quest for identity, dare to explore" - Chapter3
"But Lieutenant! The newbie was on fire when I got here! - Anonymous
"then, when you've found the shrubbery, you must cut down the mightiest tree in the forest... with... a herring!" - A knight who says "Ni!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the light can only get brighter...
 

Joe Schmoe

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Ah good ol kino its great

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Its sad that a family can be torn apart by such a simple thing as a pack of wild dogs--Jack Handey

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