backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I have to post this, because this is getting pathetic. I don't post anywhere near as much as I used to... partly becuase I am in the process of moving, and partly because I am actually living outside of the computer... but some of you really need help.
let me ask you a hypothetical question.
Which is better with women, the guy who goes out looking for women and can never get any play, or the guy who gets laid every n ight, and goes out every night with the intentions of getting laid?
Well, I dont know about you, but that first option sucks balls.
However, the difference I see in myself and a select few of others is, I don't want to be, nor am I, that second guy either.
What I am getting at is, alot of you are controled by getting or the prusit of *****.
You will NEVER get anywhere in life until you realize a woman will have a cat 5, 10, 20 years from now. It's still going to get wet and all that good stuff.
the guy who does nothing but **** women all day in the grand scheme of things is no better than the guy who can't get any. They are both dependant on a woman for validation, it's just that one is somewhat getting it and one isn't.
give me a guy that has sex wtih different women literarly every night and i WILL show you a guy with no dreams, no ambitions, no long term goals. that's what it's all about now.
I'm 23, and there was a time when I honestly got caught up in having ***** thrown at me... then I matured and realized that if I died tomorrow, I allt he ***** in the world wouldn't make me happy, the only thing that would make me truly happy is the legacy I leave behind, and although I like women, one that of a player isn't what I had in mind.
now, I get around and yes i love sex, but there isn't enough time in the day for me to do what I have to do to get where I need to get, and to chase ass all night long.
if you are one of these guys, get away from women, focus on you. Hone social skills, get in s hape, do whatever it is you do, but get validation from yourself and your achievements, not from women.
I can walk in a club, full of good looking women, and will not take my eyes off of the TV showing a college football game. I mean, it doesn't happen OFTEN but it happens.
when you aren't controled by her, you acknowledge she is attractive, to yoruself, but that's it. NOw she qualifies to get to talk to you, not the other way around. and that's if you feel like talking.
My dad is probably the best example I know. Smart man, not a dummie, doesn't do bad for himself. 46 with a 33 year old wife, 3 sons with me being the oldest. Stays in the surburbs of little rock, makes good money, etc. However, when i look at him and see what could have been, it's a shame, because all he does is chase women... I mena, he's really good at it, but at some point, ass is just ass. hes married and he is no better.
let me ask you a hypothetical question.
Which is better with women, the guy who goes out looking for women and can never get any play, or the guy who gets laid every n ight, and goes out every night with the intentions of getting laid?
Well, I dont know about you, but that first option sucks balls.
However, the difference I see in myself and a select few of others is, I don't want to be, nor am I, that second guy either.
What I am getting at is, alot of you are controled by getting or the prusit of *****.
You will NEVER get anywhere in life until you realize a woman will have a cat 5, 10, 20 years from now. It's still going to get wet and all that good stuff.
the guy who does nothing but **** women all day in the grand scheme of things is no better than the guy who can't get any. They are both dependant on a woman for validation, it's just that one is somewhat getting it and one isn't.
give me a guy that has sex wtih different women literarly every night and i WILL show you a guy with no dreams, no ambitions, no long term goals. that's what it's all about now.
I'm 23, and there was a time when I honestly got caught up in having ***** thrown at me... then I matured and realized that if I died tomorrow, I allt he ***** in the world wouldn't make me happy, the only thing that would make me truly happy is the legacy I leave behind, and although I like women, one that of a player isn't what I had in mind.
now, I get around and yes i love sex, but there isn't enough time in the day for me to do what I have to do to get where I need to get, and to chase ass all night long.
if you are one of these guys, get away from women, focus on you. Hone social skills, get in s hape, do whatever it is you do, but get validation from yourself and your achievements, not from women.
I can walk in a club, full of good looking women, and will not take my eyes off of the TV showing a college football game. I mean, it doesn't happen OFTEN but it happens.
when you aren't controled by her, you acknowledge she is attractive, to yoruself, but that's it. NOw she qualifies to get to talk to you, not the other way around. and that's if you feel like talking.
My dad is probably the best example I know. Smart man, not a dummie, doesn't do bad for himself. 46 with a 33 year old wife, 3 sons with me being the oldest. Stays in the surburbs of little rock, makes good money, etc. However, when i look at him and see what could have been, it's a shame, because all he does is chase women... I mena, he's really good at it, but at some point, ass is just ass. hes married and he is no better.
