"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yet another one of thos annoying HC posts.

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This chick I had class with last year, shes a HB 9, is pretty bangin. I also now have class with her everyday. Shes goofy n funny as ****, random times in class she'll turn aroudn and jokingly go "I (draws a heart) love you"lol.
Last eyar she invited me to her friends party, but i showed up and ehr ass was hammered and I couldn't drink that night. we haven't hungout outside of school since.
But I'm tryna think of who to ask to homecoming[and my friends parent-free party afterwards]..and she is who I'd liek tot ake the most. But then again, this girl used to date guys 3 years older than us, is def not a virgin[I am, btu she has no idea].
When I kino her, she lightly responds, but nothing strong lately.
I) I'm thinkin if I ask her and she says -no- then well, things will get awkward. I still have to see her everyday you know.
2) if she says yes Shes gonna go with ehr girls, N i want to g with my boys[for dinner n shiet] so yeah, that'll be a ahrd settlement.

Otherwise she is known as one of the msot popular chicks in our grade, so i guess I'm jsut afraid of that "no."
Shes not on a pedestal as I have been DJing her ass for a year now, i know the game fairly well.

Any advice/tips? I know i should ask confidently n all that, just wonderin if u think it seems like she'll def say yes?

edit: hc is the 24th..so the sooner the better.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Patrick124
This chick I had class with last year, shes a HB 9, is pretty bangin. I also now have class with her everyday. Shes goofy n funny as ****, random times in class she'll turn aroudn and jokingly go "I (draws a heart) love you"lol.
Last eyar she invited me to her friends party, but i showed up and ehr ass was hammered and I couldn't drink that night. we haven't hungout outside of school since.
But I'm tryna think of who to ask to homecoming[and my friends parent-free party afterwards]..and she is who I'd liek tot ake the most. But then again, this girl used to date guys 3 years older than us, is def not a virgin[I am, btu she has no idea].
When I kino her, she lightly responds, but nothing strong lately.
I) I'm thinkin if I ask her and she says -no- then well, things will get awkward. I still have to see her everyday you know.
2) if she says yes Shes gonna go with ehr girls, N i want to g with my boys[for dinner n shiet] so yeah, that'll be a ahrd settlement.

Otherwise she is known as one of the msot popular chicks in our grade, so i guess I'm jsut afraid of that "no."
Shes not on a pedestal as I have been DJing her ass for a year now, i know the game fairly well.

Any advice/tips? I know i should ask confidently n all that, just wonderin if u think it seems like she'll def say yes?

edit: hc is the 24th..so the sooner the better.
DUDE shell definitely say yes, you got what it takes, shes gonna enjoy time wit you, go for it bro !!:woo:
 

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straight, thanks.
i forgot to mention that twice over summer, even thoguh I didn't see her, i got really drunk n one time texted ehr,a dn anothe ri left ehr lieka 2 minutes message. i don't have any idea what i said in that message..but first thing she said to me at school the frist day was "i sitll ahve your message saved, its soo funny, it makes me laugh every time."
i'mpretty sure i said something along the lines of "you're sooo hott and we really neeeed to chill soon kelly" possibly mentiong hooking up hahaha[i called a girl that same night who i ment on vacation and left a message saying we needed to meetup adn hookup again lol. i was PLASTERED]
 
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