"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yet Another Conversation Question

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evolvingnerd

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well i'm happy to say definitley progressing
but now when i'm talking to chicks things are getting a bit awkward
i find myself always changing the topics quickly to avoid the silences, even if the chicks do try to maintain the convo

perhaps it's as though i'm "running out of steam" sortta thing
any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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squirrels

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Look around. Make an observation.

You never have trouble finding stuff to talk about with your friends. Girls are the same way...just stay away from anything too raunchy or freaky.

Or just enjoy the physical contact at that time. By the time you hit an awkward pause, kino should have already started (arm around her, whatever). Just enjoy being physical until you can resume verbal. :)
 
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Do that "Meet Joe Black" thing... where you are quiet but looking at her like she's the most fascinating thing since Blue Pepsi ;)
 
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