"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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evolvingnerd

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well i'm happy to say definitley progressing
but now when i'm talking to chicks things are getting a bit awkward
i find myself always changing the topics quickly to avoid the silences, even if the chicks do try to maintain the convo

perhaps it's as though i'm "running out of steam" sortta thing
any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels

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Look around. Make an observation.

You never have trouble finding stuff to talk about with your friends. Girls are the same way...just stay away from anything too raunchy or freaky.

Or just enjoy the physical contact at that time. By the time you hit an awkward pause, kino should have already started (arm around her, whatever). Just enjoy being physical until you can resume verbal. :)
 
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Do that "Meet Joe Black" thing... where you are quiet but looking at her like she's the most fascinating thing since Blue Pepsi ;)
 
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