"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yet an other girl which reward a manipulative assh0lish behaviour

Who Dares Win

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I could fill a thread myself on this topic but here just the last one.

Long but funny.

Met this girl months ago in the place where she works, filled a document for the shop discount card and right after asked her to fill my cellphone with her details which she did.

Had a first date with some drinking at the city center and she rejected my kiss at the end of the night, met her again a couple of weeks later with her friends and they had "to leave" at 10pm for some bvllsh1t work reason but I know better than 3 girls dont go home that time.

So toke it as a red light and went NC till last month (more than a half a year since our last contact) then I needed something from her shop which requires long time to be obtained unless you know someone, so just called her.

Of course after establishing the contacts I lost the count of missed calls and unanswered or delayed texts, till we agree to have a drink again and we have it in a place near the city center where I go again for the kiss and again get rejected.

But since I did most of the work to establish the contact I decided to make the ho say no and kept pushing, so toke her to my place to fill her flash memory with a tv series she really likes but cant get cause her internet in filtered....she told me we're "friends" countless time.

Back in my place I get a phone call from a friend asking me to help him for an exam which came easy to me but not as much to him, so the convo is like this:

him: bla bla bla (she cant hear)
me: of course sexy I always have time for you (she can hear my voice)
him: ahah bla bla
me: yep my place is always open for you just dress sexy or dont dress at all
him: bla bla bla
me: ok cant wait myself too

Then she asks me who was at the phone to which I reply it was nobody only to have her insist even more and finally said it was just a girl I met a the club with which later I toke some picture for a modelling agency (Im nowhere near model standard in look btw but my tone was very convincing).

She asks me to show a pic of her and I show on my cellphone all the pictures I have with girls (only the hot ones) and tell her, its one of them but dont wanna tell you which one cause Im a reserved men.

I can tell you her pvssy got wet only to see that amount of social proof, so escorted her to the door to avoid screwing up now that the heat was high, went again for the kiss and got a make out session.

Pity for her she moved from the potential LTR to the fvck buddies group after her last b1tch performance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Priceless.

Guys forgive me if I credit the wrong source or paraphrase incorrectly, but I think SgtSplacker said something to the effect of, "It's 2013. Only jealousy/social proof works on these women."

The best part about this story is she has no right to be angry with you. She told you that you and her were "friends" several times. So she can't let your personal (ie sex) life bother her. You're not "two-timing" her. She's just a friend haha.

She just happens to be "friends" with a guy that hooks up with models.

She can enjoy her "demotion" or shall I say promotion to FWB status.
 

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Then she asks me who was at the phone to which I reply it was nobody only to have her insist even more and finally said it was just a girl I met a the club with which later I toke some picture for a modelling agency (Im nowhere near model standard in look btw but my tone was very convincing)

Id elect to be more covert next time. Just say "its a friend" will do. Wouldnt want to risk it backfiring because she thinks your trying to impress her/make her jealous. Act like its no big deal and that it happens all the time.
 

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This is awesome. I'm doing a similar thing...only with Facebook. I'm getting girls blasting up my wall every other day (even if some are just friends) and I'm basically letting these girls blow themselves up. I'm not returning text messages promptly, blowing off PM's.

The big thing is just getting MORE girls to play the game. Make it a tournament of sorts, but you need to show interest and lead them on a little bit and make them compete.

Once you become valued by others, women will treat you differently. Always remember that it is the girls goal to feel supported and worthy to her peers. If you are a great catch (or a perceived great catch), women will do some pretty stupid sh*it so that they can have you.
 
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