"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, You Can Be "Too" Good Looking

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Once you reach and/or surpass a certain point, conversations and interactions get really, really strange. This includes:

1. women throwing tantrums and getting mad for no reason whatsoever.

2. women constantly dropping sexual innuendo with a totally straight face.

3. women getting their hopes up and getting heartbroken if you don't follow through

4. women trying to act like they're not interested thereby confirming that they are interested

5. women gossiping about you, giving you a "rep" as badboy manwhor.

6. dudes acting super weird around you. Acting jealous, distant, being avoidant and low key fuming when you show up.

7. women follow you for blocks, then freak out once you catch them


I'm honestly trying to just enjoy this, but it's really fvcking weird, quite frankly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who would have thought women act as stupidly as men around people they're attracted to...

Now just imagine that the woman attracted to you is very unattractive to you, then flip the roles and we can call it a creep or a niceguy.
 

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Beautiful people tend to be with beautiful people; at least when they are in their prime looking years (ladies 18-35). Rarely do you see an average looking man or lady with a 10+ partner who are around the same age.
 

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Number 3 and Number 6 are problems for me

Becoming a better looking sosuave dude is actually a lonelier existence in the end

Who would have thought
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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