Yep, I f*cked things up for good

[FuturePlayer101]

I made a post a few weeks back, saying I met a girl briefly, she moved abroad & we've kept in touch, and after some months, we began to like each other & been long distance since (9 months since I last saw her)

6 months in, she began to drift away, I stalked her online, she found out, got pissed & behaved sh*tty with me. So I came on here & got advice to go no contact.

From there, this is what happened:
I went no contact for a month. Her birthday came up recently. I wished her, we chatted for a bit etc.. A few days later, we chatted again & I had the stupid urge to make her "realize her feelings" for me. I told her I'm not well, in a very serious condition etc & she began crying & started to panic. I then told her I made that up to make her realize her feelings for me. She got PISSED and said she never wants to talk to me again.

Any way I can salvage this now?

 

[denverfan110]

Are you serious man.

This is beyond embarrassing. Borderline considering this a troll thread. If you are, wake up man. I can fully see why she has no interest in you at this point. You're letting your desire actually turn you into a creep. That's how its coming across.

 

[tripod23]

i think you may have shown her how weak you are mate........i understand you may feel pyssed that she pulled away from you , but you shouldnt joke bout being seriously ill .

you were trying to force things to happen with this chick , and i know from personal situations iv been in this year , that it never works.

i think maybe text her and just say something like you feel bad for making up a stupid story like this , just say i think your a great girl give me a call if you change your mind . then walk away........but it maybe for good this time and you have to be prepared for it.

dont say too much in the text either........short and sweet.

good luck fella

 

[FuturePlayer101]

Are you serious man.

This is beyond embarrassing. Borderline considering this a troll thread. If you are, wake up man. I can fully see why she has no interest in you at this point. You're letting your desire actually turn you into a creep. That's how its coming across.

Yep, very serious.. All true.. I didn't realize it would make me look like a creep.. After I did it, I looked back & thought F*CK!

Thinking of sending her a message, apologizing for what I did & telling her I'm gonna stay away from her from now because I keep hurting her.. What do you think?

 

[FuturePlayer101]

i think you may have shown her how weak you are mate........i understand you may feel pyssed that she pulled away from you , but you shouldnt joke bout being seriously ill .

you were trying to force things to happen with this chick , and i know from personal situations iv been in this year , that it never works.

i think maybe text her and just say something like you feel bad for making up a stupid story like this , just say i think your a great girl give me a call if you change your mind . then walk away........but it maybe for good this time and you have to be prepared for it.

dont say too much in the text either........short and sweet.

good luck fella

Yeah, I realize that now.. I made a BIG mistake..

Yeah, I'll text her with something along those lines..

Thanks man

 

[idoloveromance]

Just tell her why you made things up, and if she really cares, she'll understand. but seriously dude, You made a big mistake.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Okay, so first you trolled a girl that lives abroad, and now you're trolling SS... well done! I'm signing you up for 2013 Troll Awards

 

[FuturePlayer101]

Just tell her why you made things up, and if she really cares, she'll understand. but seriously dude, You made a big mistake.

I did explain but it turned into a fight.. I know man, I wish I never did that now..

 

[FuturePlayer101]

Okay, so first you trolled a girl that lives abroad, and now you're trolling SS... well done! I'm signing you up for 2013 Troll Awards

wtf

 

[Greasy Pig]

I told you this would happen in the last fvcking thread you posted when you were thinking of pulling this shyt.
No sympathy here.

 

[FuturePlayer101]

I told you this would happen in the last fvcking thread you posted when you were thinking of pulling this shyt.
No sympathy here.

You know something, you were the only one who said that would happen out of like 20 people. And you were bloody right. I ain't gonna argue with that.

And I don't want no sympathy, I was looking for advice..

 

[Renegade357]

Want advice? Read what you wrote and don't ever do any of that stuff again. You are lost with this girl, she will never respect you again. Next.

 

[FuturePlayer101]

Pathetic weak behavior displayed on your part, leave the girl alone and work on being a better man.

I know I gotta improve myself & I'm gonna - I'm gonna be as my username says one day

 

[FuturePlayer101]

Want advice? Read what you wrote and don't ever do any of that stuff again. You are lost with this girl, she will never respect you again. Next.

I don't intend to do that crap again because I don't intend to "fall" for anyone again after this..

 

[VladPatton]

We all told you to stop the shenanigans over a month ago.

 

[FuturePlayer101]

We all told you to stop the shenanigans over a month ago.

I know.. I only wished her Happy Birthday. She then came online & started a convo with me. I wish I fricken listened..

 

[mikey2012]

I know.. I only wished her Happy Birthday. She then came online & started a convo with me. I wish I fricken listened..

Don't worry she be back. Just wait. They always come back.