"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeehh...that P.O.F. follow up.

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So in light of darkstarrr's post on "seducing" a girl who's engaged: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=174438 I figured I'd write about a sexual encounter I had with a married woman last week. The origins of the story can be found here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173909

So long story short we talk on msn for the next couple of weeks. She opened up to me a bit about her past and her marriage and whatnot. Side note to a lot of guys here who want some ideas about a girl's sexual history; most times I find when I'm completely non judgmental or even congratulatory over their sexual "liberation" they open up more. A LOT more.

I found out she use to be a heavy party girl who was in a few sexually intense (accompanied by abuse) relationships and that at a certain point in her mid 20s she wanted to "settle down". She ended up married to a devout catholic who later in life developed erectile dysfunction. Before that he really wasn't all that sexual from what she told me. She gave him ONE ******* a few months ago but that was it. You can't take the party skank out of the housewife though and she ended up messaging me a few weeks ago.

She later became a school teacher and had 3 kids. Had a nice well to do husband in a four bedroom house. I asked why she married him if she was unsatisfied. "He's good with my kids and it was just time that I needed a husband.

The scary thing about this, guys, is that she feels completely justified in doing what she wanted to do. There is a big part of her that screams "I've done so much for him and the kids. I'm a school teacher. I DESERVE THIS." I mean screw how the husband feels or how the kids might find out about mommie's "cheating heart". Long story short, she wanted to get f*cked hard...old style.

We met in person at a bar on Tuesday and she was pretty hot for a 31 year old. Kept herself up pretty good. I was surprised. She was beaming from ear to ear when she saw me and we ordered a few drinks. The conversation came up as to why she messaged me on POF despite my BS account. "I just had to message you. I didn't care about if you liked to throw rocks at cars or not. I had to see for myself."

I don't feel proud for what I did, however I don't exactly feel bad for it either. I do feel bad for the husband not seeing the signs and this was an important lesson for me too: MOST PEOPLE SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED. Since Tuesday she hasn't initiated contact which is good. I don't really want to get into it with her again. There might be too much trouble involved if I keep talking to her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh, I forgot to mentioned we f*cked like rabbits in a local motel after we left the bar.
 

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yeah I can relate to this story completely. Lots of women out there in that situation thinking that.

A woman I've known for years tells me things she won't even tell her closest friends. She's the only ho in that group... It's nice to have at least one friend like that I think. Especially if you get to fvck them occasionally.
 

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Is this not an interesting topic to talk about? Is it not an interesting discussion on a woman's needs, her rationale and her motives to make herself satisfied?

I'm surprised no one has told me to watch my back...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ThunderMaverick said:
Is this not an interesting topic to talk about? Is it not an interesting discussion on a woman's needs, her rationale and her motives to make herself satisfied?

I'm surprised no one has told me to watch my back...

I was thinking about telling you to watch out for the angry guy with a baseball bat but I figure what's the point? You already know.
 
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