"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yearbook day

Eiljwa

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Tomorrow at my school, it is yearbook day, as I'm sure some of the other people on this forum will have soon, and I'm a senior. I was just wondering if it is a good time (I know...anytime is a good time) to meet girls or if it is weird and kinda too late, you know, last day and everything. You know, they are writing in your yearbook already, seems like a good time to ask for a number. Any advice or things you do would be great, I wasn't going to post, but I figured it would be an interesting thing to discuss, seeing as many are going to have yearbook day soon. And this is tomorrow, I know it is kind of late, but any advice will be cool.

Thanks,
Eiljwa
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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DJ1234

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It's never too late, some of the people you probably never even talked to in school and it would be a good idea if you could get whoever is signing your year book to write their number in it also ;) ....
 

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*dont get numbers from them* if you get them by accident great, if not dont worry about it

- write compliments about them in their yearbook and then slide your number in, let them call you

also dont just go up randomly and say here sign my yearbook, give them an intro and make them comfortable to you and something to think about so they will want to call you

example:

you: hey can i sign your year book

her: sure *hands year book over*

you: (as she is handing it to you and you start to open the book) lets keep in touch over the summer, it'd be nice *writing something nice about her, memories, etc., then number and something sexy and/or funny such as a big wink, smile, quote, etc*)

her: ok :)

mix it up how ever you want, be creative, have fun with it, yearbook day isn't the end of the world though, keep in mind they are meant to keep the memories, try and keep the bad ones out :) GL tomorow bro, give us an update afterwords
 
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