steve_erkle
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Where do you guys buy your clothes? I used to be a sheep and buy all Abercrombie, Hollister, etc. but now i want to get my own style. Nothing too over the top though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeahhh
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I like Bloomingdale's and Nordstrom, though those can be a bit costly for some designer lines, especially for a high school student if you aren't getting your parents to buy the clothes (and they probably don't want to spend as much on clothes as you'd want them to anyway).
I like clothes that are higer qualify because I am able to feel more comfortable in them. They feel nicer and to the trained eye, the quality becomes visibly different. Chances are the women you know are more knowledgable about this then men and more likely to notice/admire your nicer clothes.
Within the past couple years Macy's has imroved a lot in my opinion and usually has cool stuff I like. It is also much more affordable than the previous two I mentioned.
Go shopping with a girl, but not one you are interested in necessarily and get her opinions as you pick out clothes for yourself. Don't let her pick the clothes, you pick out things in a style you like and then have her give opinions on the things you already approve of.
I like clothes that are higer qualify because I am able to feel more comfortable in them. They feel nicer and to the trained eye, the quality becomes visibly different. Chances are the women you know are more knowledgable about this then men and more likely to notice/admire your nicer clothes.
Within the past couple years Macy's has imroved a lot in my opinion and usually has cool stuff I like. It is also much more affordable than the previous two I mentioned.
Go shopping with a girl, but not one you are interested in necessarily and get her opinions as you pick out clothes for yourself. Don't let her pick the clothes, you pick out things in a style you like and then have her give opinions on the things you already approve of.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Where don't I get my clothes from?
I find my stuff everywhere. From the standard highschool wear (AE, A&F, Hollister) to other things (department stores, internet). I buy what I like. The one thing I hate more than anything are the people that only seem to shop at one store, and I think you know what I'm talking about (the walking billboards LOL). Try bluefly.com, they've got a lot of high-end threads (and brands you'd normally never hear about) at decent prices.
I mean I look many places for my clothes and may find 1-2 things (if I'm lucky) at any one spot. The best thing about finding your own style is the journey. Wear what makes you feel good and it'll look good on you.
I find my stuff everywhere. From the standard highschool wear (AE, A&F, Hollister) to other things (department stores, internet). I buy what I like. The one thing I hate more than anything are the people that only seem to shop at one store, and I think you know what I'm talking about (the walking billboards LOL). Try bluefly.com, they've got a lot of high-end threads (and brands you'd normally never hear about) at decent prices.
I mean I look many places for my clothes and may find 1-2 things (if I'm lucky) at any one spot. The best thing about finding your own style is the journey. Wear what makes you feel good and it'll look good on you.
Express Fashion & Guess?, not bad deals sometimes always use the 15% off coupon though saves alot of money in the long run.
Tap out = expensive
or
http://www.ifashionmall.com/ you will find ANYTHING only problem is good stuff is oftentimes sold out.
Tap out = expensive
or
http://www.ifashionmall.com/ you will find ANYTHING only problem is good stuff is oftentimes sold out.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I'm not too concerned about what I wear, as long as what I wear is nice. I mostly hang out with asians and they say I dress like a white boy because all my shirts are either from American Eagle, Aeropostle, and Hollister. What they usually wear is the stuff you see from Metro Park with those unique designs. I actually stand out in my group because of my clothing attire.
Tapout shirts are like $20 bucksCarbonFX said:Express Fashion & Guess?, not bad deals sometimes always use the 15% off coupon though saves alot of money in the long run.
Tap out = expensive
or
http://www.ifashionmall.com/ you will find ANYTHING only problem is good stuff is oftentimes sold out.
suaveplayer
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lol i hate the high school ppl with the shirt "A. Eagle". no seriously. pause and look at that shirt again. it is just lame.
i like plainer tees with smaller logos or no logos. much classier in my opinion
i like plainer tees with smaller logos or no logos. much classier in my opinion
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What area are you from? In the Chi we got them for 50-60$ No idea behind the price difference. Or maybe they were different shirts altogether I just didn't realize, yeah online they are in the 20's my bad.S.Y.L said:Tapout shirts are like $20 bucks
Aye aye sir, couldn't have said it better myself, although I do wear their jeans, they a nice quality and are almost just like any other pair of jeans lol.suaveplayer said:lol i hate the high school ppl with the shirt "A. Eagle". no seriously. pause and look at that shirt again. it is just lame.
i like plainer tees with smaller logos or no logos. much classier in my opinion