“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah this whole game thing is BS.

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Any 'game' forum I go to is always the same, read and put an end to this fa>gotry.

Jargon
This one is just plain annoying and I know I'll probably get some replies saying how it's good to break things down.

I disagree.
Essentially what jargon does is turn perfectly ordinary guys, if not a bit unsuccessful with women; into robots.
Suddenly it's not socialising, it's DHVing, Anti-AMOGing, C & Fing.

Which brings me to my next point.

I'm learning how to pick-up chicks
Wow, cut that shi> out.
You aren't learning how to pick-up girls and become a DJ/PUA/Jargon fa>got, you're just socialising.

If you think of yourself as a guy learning how to pick-up girls, it's not even socialising any more.
You're your exact old self, just with a more nerdy vocabulary and even more unatural interactions.

This will also put you under BS pressure to fulfill your idea of what a PU would do in that particular interaction.

Sarging out on the field
- and how dumb does that sound.
It's not an army mission, it's talking to girls; jesus.
'Today I might try meet some new women.' that is normal, that is simple.

The idea is still fa>gotry.
Go out with friends and talk to strangers at the same time, if you live a good life there's no need to go out of your way to do this.
This isn't a war, you really don't need to go out of your way to complete some death defying mission.

Keyboard Jockeys
If you aren't successful with women in real life, I don't want your advice no matter how theoretically-sound it is.
Seriously, fuc> off with that; if I wanted a regurgiated article I'd find it myself.

Posters that give advice but really have no success themselves.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=163199

Reading and posting but NOT doing
You know who you are.
What's the point, this information doesn't even make sense without practical.

You could read 100s of books and have every RSD product ever made but you'll still suck without experience.

Techniques and canned-lines
Hello mr-robot.
You see the funny thing about 'the game' is if you're actually a likeable guy, the girl makes it easy.

This means techniques are pretty much useless as are canned lines.
Think of the girls who're receptive to that stuff, I wouldn't want to date any of them.

All your techniques will amount to is a sloppy one night stand.
Become a natural doesn't mean use a technique till it's natural it means work on inner-game till your outside game is aligned with that.

Let's face it, all techniques are basically fake projections of inner-game you don't have.
If you had inner game it wouldn't be a technique, you'd DHV naturally and anyother cra> we talk about.

Over use of techniques, taking mindsets to the extreme - the other side of the coin.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162690

Repetitive posts
Your issue is not unique in the slightest.
Use the fuc>ing search feature.
I wrote a guide on how to solve all your problems without a thread but sadly unless I'm posting about how much I suck at girls I'm not going to get replies.

The user base here is basically chumps giving other chumps advice with rare exceptions. If they can't give me advice, my thread won't get replies.
What BS.

If you come here for advice, this thread is for you.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=163232

Lastly..
People that won't change.
They make a thread asking for advice, you give them sound advice from a place of experience but the advice they are really looking for is the easiest.

In conclusion get fuc>ed PUA Dictionarys, wanna-be seducers, mission impossible sargers, keyboard jockeys, procrastinators and people that have 'unique' problems.



 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol some of that I agree with

actually, most of it I agree with

right on bro
 

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game is real.. if you dont play you lose.. lol women demand game cause its so easy for them to get sex so they create excitement by BSing around with all the guys that are chasing them//..
 

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DonGorgon said:
game is real.. if you dont play you lose.. lol women demand game cause its so easy for them to get sex so they create excitement by BSing around with all the guys that are chasing them//..

This is my least favorite part of "the game": the pseudopsychology. I'm not trying to target you in particular, but the posts I cannot stand are the ones that supply an incredibly BS system of "female logic" -- guys coming up with complete nonsense about how women really think (often some convoluted mind-fvck) and using that as reasoning behind a certain technique.

If aspects of this "game" work for you, great. But I think it's a huge mistake to then come up with lame amateur psychology to justify it. It works for some reason, and if it works for other people then even better. But don't kid yourselves and others by stretching a few biological/psychological truths.

And again, the post I quoted isn't even close to the worst examples. No offense to you, personally. I just think it's healthier to stick to the facts rather than some bizarre treatment of the female psyche with no basis.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Accension said:
Jargon
This one is just plain annoying and I know I'll probably get some replies saying how it's good to break things down.

I disagree.
Essentially what jargon does is turn perfectly ordinary guys, if not a bit unsuccessful with women; into robots.
Suddenly it's not socialising, it's DHVing, Anti-AMOGing, C & Fing.
Yes. They're just new words and terms for things we already have. Negging = teasing, and so on.

This isn't a war, you really don't need to go out of your way to complete some death defying mission.
I still like to wear protection, though.
;)

Reading and posting but NOT doing
You know who you are.
What's the point, this information doesn't even make sense without practical.

You could read 100s of books and have every RSD product ever made but you'll still suck without experience.

Lastly..
People that won't change.
They make a thread asking for advice, you give them sound advice from a place of experience but the advice they are really looking for is the easiest.
It's always easier said than done. If the person doesn't want to put in the hard yards, they won't change. Most people that come here won't change, most of the remainder won't take it to heart and become a better person in the long run, but it will help some people.
 

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The pua thing is just a culture don't see how your post OP is likely to help anyone maybe enlighten others to obvious truths, but you ain't helping nobody. Either use the info to benefit yourself, the ones worth using and discard the rest. Your whining about people who don't practice what they preach and your guilty of the same, not using your common sense .

Never understood peoples aversion to techniques and scripts and the cliche robot labelling anyone who uses them, even as training wheels. I don't remember reading a disclaimer stating you must regurgigate verbatim what a pua guru claims is a great script or technique etc, there are a million ways of making this stuff personally groundable to you hell you can use the format of the scripts\techniques and none of the words.

Just cause you don't like some of the systems in the culture like jargon, people with no experience giving advice, scripts or they're uncomfortable for you don't mean squat. Socialising instead of sarging, please, go make your own forum and watch in awe as the same thing happens.
 

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yeah, why do you go to so many game boards if you think they're all BS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I feel everyone that has already waded through the communities shi7 to get good can appreciate this post.

Right on man! :up: Thanks for pointing out to this issue that many of us seem to have.

Too many guys over intellectualize this stuff. It shouldn't have to be that way and now I'm just learning that... the hard way.
 

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I love to intellectulize my dlick sauce. Does that make me a PUA punk? NO>PUA is my buck sales manger mother fluck juice.
 

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Give the man a round of a applause.

What do you want, a lollipop for stating the bloody obvious?
 
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