"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah, talk about ANYTHING BUT skill

goundra

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since building skill takes DISCIPLINED, intelligent effort. :) The old wild west test of draw speed was to put a coin on the back of the gun hand, reach for the holstered pistol, and drysnap the empty gun before coin can hit the ground. This takes a hair over 1/2 second to happen. With a bit of practice, anyone can achieve this level of speed, altho it is far faster than the average cop can draw his openly worn gun, even without the special "retention" devices now commonly used on "duty" holsters. :)

A modern specialist, using a concealable holster and gun, (not worn concealed, but not a "race rig" either) can drop the coin and get both hands on the gun, at eye level, with fully extended arms, before the coin hits the deck. A very few men can drop the coin, 'clear" a concealing garment and fire a hip level, one handed point shot before the coin hits the floor.

Maybe a dozen men on the face of the earth, using realistic concealment, can beat the coin drop. By that, I mean an IWB, inside the waistband holster, covered with a hung out T shirt. The weak side hand starts the draw, by brushing up the t shirt, so that is the hand that has the coin on it, for this particular timed event. Then the strong side hand draws the gun and dry snaps it before the coin hits the deck.

No accuracy is involved here, just hand speed, but such men can take another 1/4 second, put both hands on the gun, and reliably hit your chest, at 5 yds, from eye level, and then get as many more hits as you care to see, at a rate of .20 second per shot, or less.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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youll struggle to find 3 people here who care bro... this isnt ar15.com
 

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but I can make them AWARE

and that is something. To fix something, you first have to realize that it is broken.
 
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