"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah okay, so how do i handle this?

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Like i've said before i'm a softmore in highschool. My sister happens to be a freshman. Here's the story
I was talking to a bunch of my friends and there was this girl watching us. I forgot what i said but i offender her. Anyways, i left my group of friends to apologize and we talked for a good 10 minutes. Turns out this girl is in my sister's art class and sits next to my sister. My sister told me that this girl talks about me all the time. The thing is that this girl is a junior. Should i just ask her out? She must be at least a little interested if she's talking about me right? If i do ask her out how should i do it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jokerlsk said:
Like i've said before i'm a softmore in highschool. My sister happens to be a freshman. Here's the story
I was talking to a bunch of my friends and there was this girl watching us. I forgot what i said but i offender her. Anyways, i left my group of friends to apologize and we talked for a good 10 minutes. Turns out this girl is in my sister's art class and sits next to my sister. My sister told me that this girl talks about me all the time. The thing is that this girl is a junior. Should i just ask her out? She must be at least a little interested if she's talking about me right? If i do ask her out how should i do it?
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"Hey so listen I was thinking about the other day, and I decided Im going to make it up to you, me and you are going to (whatever you want to do with her but dont say sex, that part will happen later, make it something the two of you will do together)."

then be like

"make sure you dress sexy but not TOO sexy because then I can't be held accountable for my actions and thats not cool because i don't see you THAT way."
 
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dont worry about how to do it and just DO IT.... if you THINK she likes you and you KNOW you like her, and shes pretty, age doesnt matter. and nothing else does either.
 
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Alright guys, i'm just going to ask her to go to a football game w/ me or something
I'm not afraid of rejection so it won't be hard
 
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oh i forgot to mention.
When she was talking to my sister the other day she said somethign about being "a nice guy." this is a bad sign isn't it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jokerlsk said:
oh i forgot to mention.
When she was talking to my sister the other day she said somethign about being "a nice guy." this is a bad sign isn't it?
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Nope. dont worry about it. analyze her actions versus her words. Women are emotional and sometimes when they say one thing they actually mean something else.

change her emotion and you will change her mind

Have fun on your date. And just get to know who she really is. NO BS NO GAMES. Just you.

Oh i almost forgot. try to lead and be decisive. If she wants to go to a chinese restaurant and you want italian, go to Italian and tell her that next time you will get chinese. Always make a decision and she will gladly follow.
 
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Jokerlsk said:
oh i forgot to mention.
When she was talking to my sister the other day she said somethign about being "a nice guy." this is a bad sign isn't it?
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Ok now your starting to piss me off, and that is not a good thing by the way. You need to get out of your head. If you don't capitalize on this situation then you will never forgive yourself. Rejection or not this is a defining moment in your life right now. This is when you start a pattern in your life of capitalizing on situations that present themselves to you with no care or regard for what the outcome is.

Now this is EXTREMELY simple man. Just go up to her and say what I told you to say. I realize it's a little bit AFC but I think for highschool it will work JUST FINE and it's within context so it should be GOLD. Now if she comes up with an EXCUSE -- that's OK. It just means that she got nervous and wasn't able to deal with the situation correctly, later she will be kicking herself. She reacted emotionally to you earlier BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU, and your sister CONFIRMED that. Whatever she says to you when you do this DOESNT TAKE AWAY FROM THE FACT THAT SHE HAS A THING FOR YOU. So stay calm and cool and you talk to her some more, and you keep in touch with her but you walk away without trying to come up with a different plan. Just play it cool, calm down, stop overanalyzing, and be a man. Aight?

P.S

niceguy is a buzzword for women for ANY GUY THAT THEY LIKE. It's also a softener to guys they reject, but that is irrelevant to this situation right now because she LIKES you.
 
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