"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah - no - maybe so

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i like her, i am not sure if she likes me, we went out last night with friends and my sisters. it was weird. didn't really talk that much except for here and there. i don't know. should i just think "whatever happens happens?" like let things work out themselves, or should i keep pushing it. plenty of other fish in the sea just wondering if i should keep trying to fish for this one. shes really cute and i like her alot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just trust your gut instinct. If you like her than sh!t man go for it. However, at the same time don't come off as desperate. If she rejects you don't worry about it, cuz as you said there are plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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Originally posted by cyjay201
If she rejects you don't worry about it, cuz as you said there are plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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thx guys. it was wierd last night when we went out. like we talked a lot and then later she didn't talk. when we were together we laughed alot and had a great time. but near her friends it was different. i like her so i'll just keep pushing. i just dont think she likes me as much as i like her.
 

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why dont you stop analyzing and do something about it then? ask her out on a date to gauge her response.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah do that...but I definetely hear. Chicks throw that **** at you all the time. So confusing. Anybody wanna fill this one? Honestly? Why do u chicks play this femine version of ganji games with you? I really don't think women are THAT calculating that they would be "testing" you...isn't there a simpler reason why somebody that you're involved with would just start acting radically different? Interesting....
 

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Originally posted by Enigma2517
Anybody wanna fill this one? Honestly? Why do u chicks play this femine version of ganji games with you? I really don't think women are THAT calculating that they would be "testing" you...isn't there a simpler reason why somebody that you're involved with would just start acting radically different? Interesting....
Women of all kinds love attention. Most have learned that by using their feminine charms and playing keep away, they can get a guy hooked, line and sinker.

The trick is to outplay them. Every girl, especially the attractive ones, is looking for every opportunity to play mind games with you. Some more than others, but I have yet to meet one that has never played any with me. I even need to DJ my best friend, who I have no romantic interest in, or she starts getting bored with me.

When you do outplay them, they'll make little slip ups. They'll ask why you didn't call them, hug them, wait for them, etc.
 

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You gotta get her away from her friends (and your sisters!). Take her on a simple coffee date and from there set something a little bigger.
 
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