“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YEAH!!!! I'm back to being AFC!!!!! ...fvcking hell.....

Tantric

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Yup!

Complete circle...hell...

I met a chick (HB8) at school who is pretty cool...only thing that was stopping me asking her out was the fact that she JUST boke up with her BF a couple of weeks ago, who had to move away to the military...they were together for 2 years, but they still love each other and talk every day.

I'm at school today, and HB8 walks in and asks where I've been as she hasn't seen me in a while. I thought this was REALLY strange as we are in all the same classes...anyway....she walks over and starts standing VERY close to me, side by side...fvck she might as wel have been spooning me! I took this as a good sign.

Anyway, I knew for halloween her and her GF's were heading out on a "girl-type" night out..."trick or treating", so i elected to do my own thing tonight. I was in singing class today, and AMOG decided to approach her and they got into convo...i didn't hear too much of the convo, but at the end, the girl next to her stated, "i thought you had a BF?" She responded with, "well, we decided to have an open relationship while he's gone".

I wasn't COMPLETELY sure if i heard everything correctly, so i asked her best friend, casually if she had in-fact "broken-up" with her BF...i know, pretty AFC...

Then all of a sudden this chick was like, "you like her!" I didn't say too much after that...knowing that i just made a MAJOR AFC mistake...then she started going on about how HB8 still loves her BF, and they still talk everyday, and how he's visiting at xmas...but they decided to have an open relationship...

Anyway, this AMOG managed to score "tagging along" with these girls, and from what i saw, she only got his #, but didn't give him hers...he also seemed to hang around her after class as well, which looked pretty lame, but intimidated me enough...whatever...he made his intentions clear, is hooking up with her, and already in the game...

Did i just completely miss out here by wasting too much time?

On one hand i feel like i did, but on the other hand, i don't wanna be her "second fiddle" or the guy she fvcks as a rebound after her break up. I want to be #1. Her ex-BF is coming back at xmas to visit, so they are obviously still into each other. I;ve had a lot on ONS, but this chick in my opinion is LTR material. Good decision to not pursue anything for now, so i'm not #2?

I was invited to her B-day party for tomorrow, and there will be like 80 people there...should i go to the party and mack her anyway, or leave this chick alone until i know i'll be #1?
 
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UHHH....yeah bro, your stressing over this broad too much. This is like the 2 or 3 new thread you've made about her. Look if she was all flirty with this new dood, that shouldn't mean ****. Girls who have b/f's and give you all the green lights are dangerous. They could love the idea of flirting because its a feeling they haven't had in a while, but this could make an AFC spin in circles. Why are you so focused on just her? She's not different from the rest. She's not better. **** she's probably worse for having an "open relationship." The fact that you practically seem to know her life story tells me you definitely have ONE-ITIS!

And yeah, don't go to her birthday party. See if she actually cares. It really seems like this girl see's you as nothing more than a friend and your starting to realize this but don't want to admit it. I'm not saying you should stop pursuing her but I'm telling you not to put so much IMPORTANCE on this ONE girl.

In my book she would be on the verge of being NEXT'D, but that's your decision.



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Thanks PIMP,

Yeah...you're completely right...time to get my shyte back together and mack some other chicks...especially the ones NOT at school!

Thanks man...
 

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Just blow her head off and say 'lets get together on xxxxday, whats your number?'

You're spending too much time thinking about this one, its time to make a move.
 

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beings friends with girls = AFC

opps
 
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