"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah finally got someone

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Yeah I did it. A few days ago at a club I met a beautiful girl. She really got a crush on me because the whole night she only wanted to kiss me (and me her because she was a good kisser :p).
The only thing is, that it was on vacation and it was my last day and hers aswell, so I thought it was just for one night.

But at the end when she was leaving she was asking me my number. I didn't ask hers because as I explained, I thought she only wanted one night, and thereby she lives abroad. Anyway, she asked my number, my email adres and stuff. But now I dont hear anything from her anymore. Yeah I sent 2 SMS messages to her, got some back, where she askes my email adres but I still didn't got an email from her.

What should I do, waiting till she contacts me? Or should I call her?
It's strange to me because i thought she really liked me because she asked my number and **** and now she won't let hear anything from her anymore..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:rolleyes: OMG she asked for my number and i called her 26 times and asked her to marry me and now she’s not talking to me. WHY??

MAN READ THE BIBLE honestly nobody has any business posting questions here unless they have read the dj bible. Al you guys are doing is posting questions that have been posted 1000 times and all the info you are looking for is in the DJ BIBLE.
 
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If she lives abroad, what are you hoping to get out of it????? back and forth emails for the next 10 years???
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
If she lives abroad, what are you hoping to get out of it????? back and forth emails for the next 10 years???
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No, but I just like to talk to her. Not as a girlfriend, but just to have some more contact with her :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why are all the real posters gone? Now all we have is people asking the same questions over and over.

WHERE HAVE ALL THE DJS GONE?!?
 
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Dayum you Vets are eating this guy alive!!!!!

man check it i'm not gonna be mean but you are acting like a

AFC if you know what that is then you know!!

you were on vacation and made-out with a chick now it's ova move on find a closer girl to talk to...and even maybe have sex with!! I personally think that any guy who just wants to TALK to a girl and is not tryna get nothing is a Byatch...whatever you can say to a girl (friend) you can say to your buddies....FRIEND ZONING FROM GOD KNOWS WHERE SHE IS and she lives abroad?!! that's lame get ya shizz tugevva.
 
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this post really is ridiculous. Girls at clubs and parties flake all the time ! U said u finally 'got someone'.......u didn't get anything. U made out w/ her at the club......wooohooo, anyone from this site can do that.



Your asking us to tell u why she isn't calling u back. Who cares why she isn't. Go and get yourself another girl. Women aren't worth it to 'ponder' over unless you're in a long term relationship. THe more u analyze, the more AFC u really are.
 
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Yeah you guys are right. I'm sorry I was acting like a wuss. But I really liked this girl, and she liked me more then I her. So that made me think why she doesn't call.

But you're right, what does it matter. I go on with my life and forget her. It was a nice time with her but there plenty more fish in the sea :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You should have stuck with your original game plan and not wasted your time since she lives abroad.
 
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