Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Yay, this kino thing is working

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I've been doing kinoing on my friends' girlfriends lately and it's working great! Very positive responses. Usually I'd just do handshakes with girls, but now I've upgraded to hugs. I'm doing this for practice of course, not that I have intersts in my friends' GFs :) In the past I probably looked unapproachable for kinoing, now I'm initiating lots of cues and it's great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That's awesome... Can you be more specific about the positive responses? Did they smile or anything?
 
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They respond back. Now they initiate a lot of kinoing with me as well. It's kind of a reflective thing. I'm of course talking about friendly non-sexual touching. In contrast to the way i was before this is a great change.
 
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Yeah once you give them a kino, they will do the same for you. I'm assuming for sure that these girls have trust in you so they don't mind at all.
 
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are your friends getting jealous or pissed at you for touching their girl...

id tell my friend to **** off if he did that to my girl
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why would they be jealous? They do the same to each other's GFs so it's part of the custom. I've just been out of the loop until recently.
 
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Giving cheek kisses to the friend's GF is fine. As long as it's not in the lips, ya know?
 
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