Yay or Nay

[wt_firefighter]

So me and this girl had been talking over the internet (myspace) I know not the best situation but anyway. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I called her and she didn't answer, so I left her a voice message saying who it was. About four days later, I called her again but from a different number, she didn't pick up go figure though. I left her a message to call me and she hasn't and its been a couple of weeks. Since calling her I have messaged her on the internet a couple of times and she hasn't responded. I am confused, she gave me her number and said I should come out with her and her friends some time and we were giving each other neg hits back and forth, it seemed to be going good. But I think she is an AW. What I am trying to get at is should I try and pursue a date or just say the hell with it.

 

[Triple T]

Forget about her...your acting too desperate.
You only need to make one call..not two calls with voice messages as well as messaging her online about why she hasn't called...

Next this one..

 

[wt_firefighter]

Yep I know what I need to do, I just thought this one could be a winner.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

You can make more than one call. If a girl was taking a sh!t in the bathroom when you called. She doesn't answer are you just gonna next her like that? No, you wouldn't. The fact here is you tried a few times to contact her. She has not responded to you yet. You waited 4days to call her after your first try. Then, you try messiging her online again. You may of came off as desperate or needy depending on how many times you tried to get a hold of her.

But, fact of the matter is. She did not try to get intouch with you after you called. So, forget her and move on. This is one reason why internet dating is useless and a waste of time.

 

[n00bPimp]

Knock that *she could be a winner* crap. Any woman that has the chance to enjoy your company is the winner. You're the prize and you must behave as such. My guess is that you didn't communicate all this in your voicemails and messages. Instead you put her on a pedestal and saw her as the prize to be won.