"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So me and this girl had been talking over the internet (myspace) I know not the best situation but anyway. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I called her and she didn't answer, so I left her a voice message saying who it was. About four days later, I called her again but from a different number, she didn't pick up go figure though. I left her a message to call me and she hasn't and its been a couple of weeks. Since calling her I have messaged her on the internet a couple of times and she hasn't responded. I am confused, she gave me her number and said I should come out with her and her friends some time and we were giving each other neg hits back and forth, it seemed to be going good. But I think she is an AW. What I am trying to get at is should I try and pursue a date or just say the hell with it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Forget about her...your acting too desperate.
You only need to make one call..not two calls with voice messages as well as messaging her online about why she hasn't called...

Next this one..
 
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You can make more than one call. If a girl was taking a sh!t in the bathroom when you called. She doesn't answer are you just gonna next her like that? No, you wouldn't. The fact here is you tried a few times to contact her. She has not responded to you yet. You waited 4days to call her after your first try. Then, you try messiging her online again. You may of came off as desperate or needy depending on how many times you tried to get a hold of her.

But, fact of the matter is. She did not try to get intouch with you after you called. So, forget her and move on. This is one reason why internet dating is useless and a waste of time.
 
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Knock that *she could be a winner* crap. Any woman that has the chance to enjoy your company is the winner. You're the prize and you must behave as such. My guess is that you didn't communicate all this in your voicemails and messages. Instead you put her on a pedestal and saw her as the prize to be won.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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