"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

yay gym membership

Snap87

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 25, 2004
Messages
131
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Wassup guys. I can finally be buy a gym member ship, next week though. Just asking, what are the excersises i MUST have/do??:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Create Reality

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2002
Messages
1,415
Reaction score
7
Location
California
Lateral shoulder raises! YAY!

Don't forgot pinkie curls.
 

WesCottII

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2004
Messages
1,349
Reaction score
11
Location
Nottingham
Ask the staff there to draw you up a plan.
 

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
Originally posted by WesCottII
Ask the staff there to draw you up a plan.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

djbr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 22, 2004
Messages
962
Reaction score
12
Originally posted by WesCottII
Ask the staff there to draw you up a plan.
I got fed up with gyms here in Brazil precisely because they draw you a plan and don't LET you work-out OUT of it. Meaning that if they find out you work out on your own way, they'll nag, as there is a law who makes any injury you have their responsability.

That's why I bought my home set. Crappy, but no way I'm going to do their routines.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

manuva

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2005
Messages
527
Reaction score
9
Location
Australia
Nah Warboss has way better info. Search for his post of beginner workouts.
 
Top