I'm a pretty good looking guy, still a virgin, I'm 21. I wear pretty good clothes and sometimes people think I'm rich. Well what I get from girls sometimes is that they think I'm to good for them or somethingh cause it looks like I'm rich or something but I ain't. Well I get that vibe anyway. What can I do or am I just trippin.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ya'll ever get this from girls?
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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Black_Italian
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Yeh thats it you hit the nail on the head. The girls think your to good for them. My advice is get some plastic surgery to make your self uglier and start wearing old people cloths. Once you do this i am sure all the women you meet will go crazy for you 
TheSplat
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You're probably too nice. I get that "you're too good for me" "You're way out of my league" bullsh1t all the time. All you gotta do is compliment her more than you would normally to make her feel like she's in your league.
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I dress pretty well, wear REALLY expensive ****, into arts, etc, and I have NEVER had that problem.
Worst case scenario, if you think thats the problem, you could just try to go with rich girls.
I doubt it though - girls rarely look at a rich guy and think "Naw, too rich. Dont want to date someone who can buy me stuff, and take me on dates to the best places." Theres probably an issue with technique my friend...
Worst case scenario, if you think thats the problem, you could just try to go with rich girls.
I doubt it though - girls rarely look at a rich guy and think "Naw, too rich. Dont want to date someone who can buy me stuff, and take me on dates to the best places." Theres probably an issue with technique my friend...
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spider_007
Master Don Juan
chicks think your a fake. An "AVERAGE" guy who dresses up extra nice, with expensive cloths, jewlery, car..... is trying to make up for something he is missing. THEY CAN SMELL IT.
also, gurll looks for attitude not the size of your walet. There is a missconseption outhere gurlls love rich guys. They love the attitude most rich guys have. They Love the "self made man/self made millionare". It's not the money it's the "Idea" and "romance" of it.
also, gurll looks for attitude not the size of your walet. There is a missconseption outhere gurlls love rich guys. They love the attitude most rich guys have. They Love the "self made man/self made millionare". It's not the money it's the "Idea" and "romance" of it.