Yall act like guys have to be the perfect guy to get a girl

[JPlaya]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

 

[Pardner]

some girls have to think that you are perfect. fix your attitude learn how to converse with them. these low life guys that get girls they are not alpha at all. most of this alpha sh!t is stupid anyway these guys act like big shots but they cant keep a girl. it depends on the girl you are trying to get the way you need to game them. the less they are the easier it is.

 

[Kirro]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

People keep on harping about gaining these physical & mental attributes because more often than not, the men with both of these qualities don't have to be on a forum repeatedly making useless topics that do nothing for them or anyone reading or posting in them.

Now are you going to go out & try something or will you keep coming back here wasting your own time & going nowhere?

 

[psychoticpharaoh]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

All girls are different. Many are sluts and need direct game. Some are good girls that fantasize about prince charming and **** like that- proceed slowly and once she submits GOD-DAMN is she freaky. Some are whorish gold-diggers that will gladly trade sex for gifts, money, etc. Some want a man with status who has social power. Some just want a guy with great abs. My favorite are those with significant others that feel unappreciated and need intense desire from a man (great for one-night stand tips).

 

[Htienvu]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

These advice are for your own benefit and self improvements, they're not specifically for getting girls. However, once you're fit and confident getting girls will be easier than now. Everyone can get a girl, even most afc of them can get a girl! But most afcs worship every step their girl take, get no respect from the girls and always walking on egg shells. You want quality girls who will love and respect you.

 

[L B]

You trolling brah. You keep on posting how superior your physical appearances are and you can't get laid. You want to get the ladies, work on your inside first. Then work on the outside to influence the inside to make you a stronger player.

You keep on focusing on being fit and looking good, but it won't help if you're a social retard. Work on your dating skills and find a style that you're comfortable with. It's hard work, not easy. Complaining about it won't make it any easier.

I usually don't remember people's past postings, but the irony of your name make you a very memorable poster.

 

[zekko]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

So what are your friends doing that you aren't? Maybe you should observe them and try to figure it out.
I'm guessing they are probably more social, confident, positive, more fun to be around, and probably make moves on girls they like, instead of worrying about why they might be rejected.

Oh, and you don't have to be perfect to get girls.

 

[Amazing]

So what are your friends doing that you aren't? Maybe you should observe them and try to figure it out.
I'm guessing they are probably more social, confident, positive, more fun to be around, and probably make moves on girls they like, instead of worrying about why they might be rejected.

Oh, and you don't have to be perfect to get girls.

You can get girls, and usually this will be different type of girls you get, based on how you act


EVERY RULE HAS EXCEPTIONS but generally from what I've seen:


not good looking + don't know yourself = your hand

Good looking + don't know yourself = masturbation and occasional drunk hook up.. may be lowered standards for Fukk buddies.

fun + not good looking + know yourself = still can get girls via personality, will get average ones may be once in awhile cute ones

Fun + good looking + don't know yourself too much so go off what you see in pop culture = hot bar flys, attention *****s, etc..


Know yourself + not good looking = average cool gf types, some cute ones who might see you for personality and whatever else


Know yourself + attractive ( but not supermodel) = best

Know yourself + attractive + fun = Supernova



I had to make a few categories up there since I don't deal with all of these, if anyone has seen it play out like that agree or disagree.


But it should be pretty clear that being comfortable with yourself is the key. I don't know how many times I can post this but being honest about who you are and letting some emotions out is the key to getting a girl comfortable with you. I do it just because I am open to everyone, but now girls won't leave me alone because they feel like I know who they really are.. it's a double edge sword really, but you will get so much more because awesome girls who most are intimidated by and who usually are afraid to open up because they are most insecure will want to be on you, a lot.

 

[JPlaya]

Thanks im kind of down because ive been trapped at the house.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Your friends must have big c0cks then!

 

[Amazing]

Your friends must have big c0cks then!

Well now we know where your insecurity comes from.. when are you getting that penis car?

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Well now we know where your insecurity comes from.. when are you getting that penis car?

Haha it was a joke man!

Seriously, no one likes anyone that is perfect though. The guys that I know that wind up in the longest lasting relationships and have the most frequent lays are...

out of shape
drink and drug too much
are unemployed or make dirt pay
have absolutely no ambition in life
have totally negative outlooks on life

Although, they do get very low class ladies. Most of them are attractive, but they're lacking in everything else. Such as mannerisms, intelligence, ambition etc..

Those guys don't need to be perfect, so why should you? :yes:

 

[Groovy]

You gotta have muscles
You gotta display alpha characteristics
You gotta do this and so on

My friends don't have any of this and they still get girls, but I'm better looking and more fit than my friends and I still can't get a girl, so I'm confused.

You say you are good looking, fit, etc. That's good. But just in case, let me remind you of something. This has been said in this thread before, but just in case.

Don't be one of these guys that is too optimistic. Always happy and joyful. Too much happiness can be bad too. You got to have that bad boy side as well. Treat a women great sometimes, treat her like crap sometimes. (When the time is right). You know these guys that say: Never get angry, never loose your cool. They are wrong! I may have wrote that one in a controversial way, but I can't explain it better, sorry. Do you know that show, the Apprentice, with Donald Trump? He compliments people all the time, but when someone makes an mistake, he doesn't let it slide, he will call you out on it, and even may fire said person. You got to have that side in your personality, not just to be attractive to women, but it's gonna be good for you too.

Of course, there is another possibility. If your friends don't display alpha characteristics and still end up with girls, maybe these girls aren't really that attracted to them or whatever. Idk. Some more detail would be useful.

I am not 100% positive of what I wrote, to be honest, I think I am close, but something seems to be missing... Some help ppl? Don't be shy, let's all comment on this one, the more people post the better it is going to be, I am sure someone has a interesting comment but is shy or whateva. Thanks for reading, peace.

 

[mahoney]

i think his friends are probably just a bit more easygoing than he is, and don't get all wound up into an intense knot about it

 

[Amazing]

You say you are good looking, fit, etc. That's good. But just in case, let me remind you of something. This has been said in this thread before, but just in case.

Don't be one of these guys that is too optimistic. Always happy and joyful. Too much happiness can be bad too. You got to have that bad boy side as well. Treat a women great sometimes, treat her like crap sometimes. (When the time is right). You know these guys that say: Never get angry, never loose your cool. They are wrong! I may have wrote that one in a controversial way, but I can't explain it better, sorry. Do you know that show, the Apprentice, with Donald Trump? He compliments people all the time, but when someone makes an mistake, he doesn't let it slide, he will call you out on it, and even may fire said person. You got to have that side in your personality, not just to be attractive to women, but it's gonna be good for you too.

Of course, there is another possibility. If your friends don't display alpha characteristics and still end up with girls, maybe these girls aren't really that attracted to them or whatever. Idk. Some more detail would be useful.

I am not 100% positive of what I wrote, to be honest, I think I am close, but something seems to be missing... Some help ppl? Don't be shy, let's all comment on this one, the more people post the better it is going to be, I am sure someone has a interesting comment but is shy or whateva. Thanks for reading, peace.

You are 19, thats what you are missing. Everyone is dumb at your age, then you graduate to stupid right around 24.

The point is to treat women like people - and yes that means giving compliments when she is doing well and criticizing when she is not, but do it in a smooth way because they are much more sensitive. I've made many girls cry in the past and I am a d!ck for that, there was no need, and I at the time didn't think i was doing anything wrong.

Don't try to be something else - a badboy, or pimp from rap video or something stupid you think is "cool" .. just try to be the best you can be, embrace your hobbies, your lifestyle, aspire to improve your life, and look at girls as normal people in your life, too many guys approach it as "every woman I talk to I am supposed to be trying to fvck" - and that is so stupid. What happens if a girl is CLEARLY out of your league, has 50+ guys who want her and has a great life? You wouldn't want to be at least friends with this girl so she can introduce you to some of hers, or may be you get to know each other a bit and then she is into you? I am talking from experience, being the guy who thought I was supposed to sleep with any girl I knew - I didn't want to be friends, because that's being a sucker, right? Well, that is pure bullsh!t, get some girl friends, you will be getting laid A LOT more and your overall life will be better too, there are plenty of cool things and advice girls can bring to the table.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

You must make her think about sex, get her comfortable, and allow her to preserve her ego.

Doing those 3 thigns will get you laid, and the muscles/looks/alphaness help you do that, but they're not necessary. It's just one way to get it done.

 

[playergamehater]

well maybe not perfect, but definetley of better quality, of higher-value than the girl is